need some advice!

[celtic05]

ok hi there theres this girl who i meet on weekends but i need to be drunk because when i have met here before without any drink i cant say nothing to her i get really nervous and think to myself that mabe if i try to talk to her she wont like me are something this is my 1st real girlfriend and i really want things to go right i really do like her but am really really shy around girls but when i am drunk then i can tell her how i feel about her and talk away too her i am so confused can anyone help plzzzz people have told me things to try on here before but nothing seems to work so mabe someone who had this problem can help thanks in advane:(

[JS17]

I'm really shy too. It sucks. Have you told her that you like being with her but you're shy and need time to open up?

[celtic05]

thats even to hard for me to say to her the only things i say to her are what did you do today and i am away home lol not nice but she doesnt talk to me either she tells my mate on the phone everything

[JS17]

I posted this to you last time but I really think it will help so I'm going to post it again. Try doing activities with her where you don't have to talk the whole time untile you get comfortable around her. You could try movies or concerts.

 

Clearly she likes you too so I wouldn't fear rejection at all. Keep trying until you get more comfortable.

 

Has your friend that she talks to on the phone told her that you're shy?

[celtic05]

she all ready knows but shes my sisters mate and i lived beside her about 3 years ago... i just feel really weird when i am around girls

[celtic05]

and another thing i been to the dentist to get my teeth fixed but she crowned my fronnt teeth but the caps feel off so i am hoping that mabe when i get them sorted this will help me