y0ss Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 Hi I have been involved in a bit of a love triangle. But to cut the story short the girl in question initially decided not to be with me, she felt it wouldn’t work for various (unfounded) reasons. So she perused a relationship with someone else. At the beginning for a month or so, I didn’t accept this, and hassled her to an extent, although she was more than keen to listen, and admitted still having feelings for me. But she ultimately decided she had made a decision and had to see it through, for better or worse. However, when I began to move on, and had in fact met someone, very briefly, she got in contact, asking if I had seen anyone else (there is no way she could have know, none whatsoever). Anyhow, this descended into a bit of a tiff, although I’m not sure what the issue was, still in the course of it she mentioned some regrets, and said that she had been on the brink of splitting with her boyfriend. Today we spent all day on the phone, in short she is confused and is clearly still interested. Nevertheless, she is off to meet her boyfriend tonight, but she says she doesn’t know what is going to happen, or what the outcome will be. Just before she left to see him she rang me again, basically looking for reassurance, asking if I could cope with her and the issues she had, I assured her I could, she said ok, although she was very upset, she doesn‘t think she is good enough, but I did my best to let her see that things between us could work out. Anyhows she currently at this time meeting said boyfriend, and I presume discussing their future. I feel totally pre-occupied and a little sick with nerves. She said to me she can’t commit in that relationship whilst I am still on the scene, and she needs to come to some final resolution. So folks, what do you reckon, am I in or out? She’s to get back in touch later this week, so you can take your guess and I’ll let you know the outcome. Advice and input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Author y0ss Posted December 12, 2005 Author Posted December 12, 2005 I guess the main issue for me is - what was thAT call all about? Why phone me, when we had agreed to leave it until the weekend, just to ask if I knew how deeply affected she is by certain issues. To me I felt as if she was asking me - can you cope / deal with me, do you realise how difficult that will be for you? I gave a good account of myself but I don't know if that really matters as I don't really know what that call signified. Was it just to bolster her self-esteem, to make her feel better, and nothing to do with us per se, or Was it to check that I knew what I was getting myself into, before she took the plunge, or something totally different. ???????
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