in need of an answer

[shakdas]

i became romantically interested in a girl a few months ago, and i felt it was best not to pursue it. now i'm starting to change my mind. i'm almost positive she knows i have feelings for her, but she hasn't made any attempts to show that she feels the same way. should i tell her how i feel, or let it go?

 

thanks

[malachai]

based on the little info in your post, it's kind of hard to say either way. like why you initially chose not to pursue her, what kind of person she is, etc.

 

but, in general, i tend to believe it's best to go after something rather than let it go, that is if you have strong feelings for her. (there are quite a few exceptions of course)

 

otherwise, you'll always have "what if's" floating around in the back of your head.

[shakdas]

i initially chose not to pursue her because she's the type who usually doesn't go for the "nice guy", which most, including myself, would consider me to be. i felt like even if i did get her, it wouldn't last very long, but i could be wrong.