RZA-Man Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 I was dumped 19 days ago by my girlfriend of 8 months. Up until today I had maintained NC. About a week and half ago my ex called one of my friends (my ex is an acquaintance of my friend and doesn’t have an independent friendship with her). According to my friend, when my ex called her she was crying, wanted to see how I was doing and was wondering why I hadn’t called. I figured what the hell and gave her a call. We talked for about 25 minutes and it was like old times. We joked and had a good conversation while avoiding the subject of our break up. I don't feel any worse nor do I feel good. I guess I feel a little better because I didn't crack while talking to her. Also I didn't beg her to take me back. If anything, I have the satisfaction of knowing my last conversation with her wasn't her dumping me. I don't forsee myself talking to her again unless she calls me. Did I do the right thing or am I just setting myself up for more heartache?
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