LindsaymcK Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 I've been dating my Boyfriend for just over 1yr now. and i'm not sure on how to deal/cope with him having a ex-wife. their break up wasn't on bad terms (so am told) and they been seperated for 2-3yrs they will be properly divorced in a few weeks time. The thing is he told me that they are exchanging christmas presents WHY ? is it normal for ex's to do that ? i dont know how to bring up my concerns about this with him he also still has her number in his phone book should i be worried about that ?
slubberdegullion Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 Don't give it a second thought. Since the separation was amicable and the divorce is coming soon, your man is to be congratulated on getting it through it all with his psyche (and his wallet!) intact. I have 2 ex-wives (slow learner). Now, they both live a long distance away from me, but we still correspond on a regular basis and are actually *gasp* friendly towards one another. So give him a hug, tell him you love him, that you respect him, and allow him the space and privacy to keep his past in his past.
SuperMonk Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 I've been dating my Boyfriend for just over 1yr now. and i'm not sure on how to deal/cope with him having a ex-wife. their break up wasn't on bad terms (so am told) and they been seperated for 2-3yrs they will be properly divorced in a few weeks time. The thing is he told me that they are exchanging christmas presents WHY ? is it normal for ex's to do that ? i dont know how to bring up my concerns about this with him he also still has her number in his phone book should i be worried about that ? Yes you should be concerned, but then you do much about it really can you? Just know that most men when they get divorced in America because how of the legal system is, men get their asses ripped in half from divorces. Bow before the man.
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