Travis111 Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 hey, ok, i know this girl. we've been friends for about a year and a half. right from the mintute i met her i knew she was the girl for me. i don't meet many girls at all so the fact that we were becoming good friends really excited me. i was considering asking her out untill i found out she had a boyfriend. and that boyfriend just happened to be a guy i had recently become friends with (tough luck huh?) and it kinda pissed me off becuase i suspected they were going out so i had i said to her "you and him are pretty good friends huh?" thinking if they were really going out she would say something but she didn't. but anyways i didn't really care because we were becoming good friends and i figured they had to break up sooner or later. well it's been well over a year and they're still going out, even though she's constantly complaining about him. i've kinda hinted at her she should break up with him (i don't really want to come right out and say since he is my friend at i'd feel kinda bad about that) but she hasn't. but i wouldn't mind so much if we were still good friends but now our friendship is taking a hit and don't really know why. we were friends all through last year and when school ended she saind she was going to call me and we were going to hang out. well she never called. but then school started and things seemed to be good again, almost like when we first met, she would talk to me about all kinds of stuff. but then she met some other guys and she seems alot more interested in them and i seem to have taken a back seat. she's still going out with her boyfriend but i wouldn't be overly surprised if she dumped him for one of these guys. anyways, after a while i got frustrated. within a matter of weeks i had gone from he friend to just some guy she new. seemingly out of options, i decided to tell her how i feel. i'd never done anything like this before and i was really nervous. i knew i could never tell her in person so i wrote her a letter and told her everything. she said she really valued my friendship and she was glad we became friends and she seemed ok with it so i thought things might get better between us. they did for a bit but now they're back to the way they were. sometimes it seems like she's completely ignoring me. i don't know what to do. can anyone help me?
SuperMonk Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 No, you just want to get in her pants, and she knows it. She thinks you're slime for thinking you really want to be friends with her.
Author Travis111 Posted December 12, 2005 Author Posted December 12, 2005 dude, if you knew me at all you'd know that's totally not me. i came here to get help not to get insulted. that's not the problem. things started to go downhill before she knew how i felt about her. it's not the fact that i'm not going out with her, what really bothers me is that we're not as good of friends as we used to be. so if anyone has any real advice for me i'd be glad to hear it.
Art_Critic Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 Since she has a bf the ONLY thing top do is walk away.. If she was interested in you in a romantic way she would've let you know.. You need to not persue her at all or things will go haywire and you will wind up with the short end of the stick..
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