sparkles0913 Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 So, I have written before about wondering this guy at work is interested in me. He calls me during his breaks a couple of times a week and we do emails a couple of days a week too. He's 10 years older than me though, and I'm not sure if he's interested in me or if he's just thinking of me as a friend and somebody to talk to at work. The last conversation we had, he spent about 20 minutes talking to me about his nephews and his grandparents on the phone, and everything was great. He asked if anybody was going out after work and I wasn't at that point, so we decided to go out for a drink. We tried inviting other people, but everybody was just busy. So, I thought it was just going to be us, which would have been nice to feel out the situation, you know? Well, my dear friend (who also has a big mouth) invited herself along with us, and then invited another person so she wouldn't feel like the third wheel. We all had a great time, but I'm still unsure as to if the guy is interested or not. And I'm also really annoyed that my friend invited herself along and I'm also annoyed that she has a big mouth and is making something out of nothing so far because nothing is going on. So, this question is more in reguards to the guy. He has said that we should do lunch, and he is rumored to be just the nicest guy in our building, so I'm having a difficult time deciding if he is just being as nice as he is rumored to be, or if it's something else, ya know? Nobody else has said he emails them or calls them just to chat. Any help from the guys? Do you talk about your family typically with just anybody? Do you invite just anybody out for drinks or lunch?
country gal Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 I think hes interested. Thats a lot of effort for someone that isnt really his friend. What I mean is he probably has friends outside of work (most likely anyway) that he can hang out with or meet for drinks. I htink he's trying to feel you out. Besides "nice" boys dont generally act aggressively because, hey, they're nice! Which can be good but bad. Next time pull your friend aside and tell her to come up wiht an excuse to leave early - or tell her to not come along at all..... or be bold and invite him to lunch - just him.
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