Big boobs, small body, and a ****-load of stretch marks

[HugsNotDrugs]

alright, i have a Size D breasts, and a size 7 frame(although i still have a little bit of flab at the belly) And as much as i would like to show off my body, its practicly impossible with my boobs( which have been given the wonderful and oh-so merciful job of baring stretch-marks that look like battle-scars from world war II) Does it REALLY matter if i have stretch-marks? Do guys feel utterly repulsed? well- ususally i wouldn't ask these questions... but i've got a cute guy that really likes me... and im just wondering... will he care?

( i know you guys can't tell me HE'LL care, but do you think most guys care about that?)

[slubberdegullion]

i've got a cute guy that really likes me... and im just wondering... will he care?

Probably not. But if you're still really concerned, simply tell him. Something like, "I'm not too happy with my body, but it's the only one I've got."

 

He'll probably ask you what you don't like.

 

"The usual, I guess, sagging breasts, stretch marks, you know, just the regular stuff. Oh, and the third eye in the middle of my back somehow turns guys off. It gives me 20/20 hindsight though."

 

After he stops laughing, he'll probably give you a hug and whisper reassuring phrases in your ear.

 

So relax. Keep the conversation light, and I think you'll be very pleasantly surprised at his response.

 

Good luck!

[HugsNotDrugs]

thank you, ill try it out ^_^

[witabix]

Any man with any sense will tell you no.

 

Some men will be infected with the "advertising woman syndrome" as some women are, where perfection has to be shown to them on the billboards and is only personfied in a physical form. They cannot see past the outer layer of skin.

 

Anyone who is interested in you, I assume you have seen each other, should accept you as you are.

 

If he is freaked out by something as superficial as stretch marks then ..... well he is being superficial..... I can't think of a better way to say it.

 

Stop being so critical of yourself. (Easier said than done I know).

[HugsNotDrugs]

Stop being so critical of yourself. (Easier said than done I know).

Im not usually so self-analyzing-I like my body and the way it works, even if there ARE a few quirks-, but this guy is really sweet and i've known him for a while now( we went to school together) and i've started to really like him... I don't know, im 16 years old and i about this time is when you get really freaked out and self-consious...I just hope hes as sweet and understanding as he acts.

[witabix]

Glad to hear you describe yourself that way. At 16 don't get too hung up on what this guy thinks, relax and enjoy life. Think carefully before you consider taking your clothes off in any case.

[HugsNotDrugs]

lol no worrys, im not going to be taking my clothes off anytime soon- hes not THAT special, and untill i know if he is or not- im keepin my pants on ^_~

[mini696]

Peronally... And this may sound weird... But I like stretch marks. And saggy boobs are a turn on too. I dont think its just me.

[Gold Pile]

A well fitting turtleneck will show off the boobs and not show anything else.

 

Most women will tell a guy (in passing conversation) about issues she has with her body. An interested guy will then (in casual conversation) make it clear that he has seen such B4 and had no objection, or even liked it.

[tanbark813]

Being presented with D cups with stretch marks on a petite body is kind of like being handed the keys to a Viper with a scratch in the paint. Maybe it's not perfect, but who gives a s***?

 

I've been with girls with big boobs who had stretch marks and I didn't care. I think a lot of guys are more excited about the boobs than they are concerned with--or even paying attention to--the stretch marks. Don't sweat it.

[HugsNotDrugs]

haha, thank you for the advice guys~

[mis'ippi]

What up? Anyhow, i'm an 18 year old girl with a cute curvy, athletic built body, brown hair, and blue eyes, lil ghetto ass and fairly big boobs...One BIG problem.....STRETCH MARKS!!! They are awful! I mean, they don't over take my body but they are certainly there. They depress me every single day.I wake up thinkin about them, i go to bed thinkin about them...i totally obsess over them.I think no guy,or decent good lookin guy anyway, will ever want me. I mean c'mon, who wants damaged goods?! Nobody. I wish that some of you guys would comment on this.... What do you guys think about them? How big of a turn off are they?