consumed Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 I know I've posted this in another foruma and it may not seem like the right one but I've just been posting alot here so I figured some of you might know my story. (My threads are all here) About a month ago my gf broke things off and I had to come back to my city ebcause I had moved out to her small town halfway accross the country. Anyways, just in the last week I've been surfing some dating site and I've been playing email tag with this girl. Well last night we finally chatted online for a good 3-4hrs. I'm not sure what to do because she was really persistant on meeting up and then pushed for tonight to do something. I said yes but I'm really not sure it's a good idea. I'm still getting my life back together working on myself, I have a new job in which my co-workings are having some party they want me to come out too tonight aswell. This girl seems really nice but it kinda seems really fast, plus after abour 3hrs she started telling me how she was watching some porn, (not that I mind or care) but she stated talking about sex and stuff. It didn't bother me that much because we had and were talking about many other things, but tonight I'm suppose to call her. Any advice for me? thx in advance.
westernxer Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 She wants you to bang her. It's up to you if you're ready for it.
slubberdegullion Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 She wants you to bang her. It's up to you if you're ready for it. Maybe, but she also may have a face like a can of crushed a**h***s. Call her and tell her you can't make it tonight because of a work function, which is the truth. Then set up an alternative date to meet. If, as the date approaches, you don't feel comfortable about it, call and cancel. You have nothing invested in the relationship at this point, so the only thing you owe her is common courtesy, nothing more.
westernxer Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Maybe, but she also may have a face like a can of crushed a**h***s. With a body to match.
In Sync Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Anytime you have a doubt that's your subconscious telling you: Watch Out! Here's a red flag situation for you... Sure you can go out, who knows you may evev have some booty action, but from your lack of enthusiasm it seems like something you're doing it to distract yourself from the slow pace the recovery process is taking. You wanna rush the process by the prospect of engaging in a little "episode" with a nice girl you met on-line who is into porn. Ummmm..Reeeeeeeeealllllly. It's been a month ago that you broke off from the gf...ok you seem like an intelligent guy...the office party with co-workers is more logical choice here, because there's no underlying sexual pressure here (of course that depends on the type of office you are working at...hee hee) Plus you get to make knew co-worker friends take your mind off the past gf and crap... my thinking but beware of rushing into a liason it may bite you in the ass because you are still recovering.
Author consumed Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 I've got to call her real soon but my gut says not to go. I mean I had really wanted to hit up this party tonight at one of my co-workers houses.
westernxer Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 I've got to call her real soon but my gut says not to go. I mean I had really wanted to hit up this party tonight at one of my co-workers houses. Call her tomorrow morning, after the party. Tonight is your night to kick some ass.
Author consumed Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 I don't think she'll want to talk tomorrow if I don't call her today.
westernxer Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Then call her and set something up for next week. If she isn't down with it, tough luck. Tonight's your night.
Author consumed Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 Then call her and set something up for next week. If she isn't down with it, tough luck. Tonight's your night. well I gave her a call, she wants to do something, but honestly I just want to drink tonight.
Author consumed Posted December 11, 2005 Author Posted December 11, 2005 So I went to the party last night, but now today she wants to hook up. She was upset I couldn't make it and aswell today I started going around the clock with numbers asking her what time she wanted to meet and she got peeved. I was only joking but I got alot of red flags going up. In an hr Im suppose to call her and I don't want to go out at all now.
westernxer Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 Then don't call her, and don't chat with her again. Or just tell her you can't make it tonight.
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