marybethemail Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 My boyfriend has been going out for "guy time." I recently found out the other guys girlfriends have been showing up. My boyfriend says he never knew they were coming, yet he never told me about this (until I had a feeling and asked him). He also never called and invited me when they showed up, nor did he talk to his friends and try to resolve this (by setting up couple time separately, not inviting other girlfriends?) How do I handle this?
slubberdegullion Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 He can't control whether the other guys bring their girlfriends or not. In fact, the other dudes probably don't want their girlfriends there but get harangued into taking them. Let him enjoy his time with the guys. Better for him, better for you, better for your relationship.
JadeStar Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Has he been out anymore with his guy friends (with their g/f's being there) now that you know and still hasn't invited you? If so, I think the main question is, why he is still not inviting you. If he is having a "guys" night out with just the guys thats one thing, but being that their g/f's have been there and you haven't, you need to find out why you have not been invited. Jade
westernxer Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Maybe the other guys are pussies who can't say no to their girlfriends.
RainyDayWoman Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 i can't stand girls who don't "let" their guys have their own time with their friends. it's ridiculous and unfair. if it's a boyfriend who cheated, yeah, it might make a little sense, but if the trust is that bad that he can't do anything out of his girlfriend's sight, that to me indicates that the relationship has come to an end anyway. to the original poster, if anything, it probably makes the other guys jealous that he can have time without you tagging along. i am sorry it hurts your feelings, and i guess your issue is more about why he didn't invite you. i think it seems like you probably wouldn't go anyway, but you would at least have liked the option, since his friends' girlfriends were there, too. i think you should tell him that, in a non-judging, non-confrontational way. see what happens. you will more than likely be able to tell how he feels about it by his reaction.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 Maybe the other guys are pussies who can't say no to their girlfriends. roflmao!!!!
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