smile95 Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 I hope that all of us who are having a hard time dealing and coping with a loss will start a new chapter and move on in life! I made a promise to myself to do this and I hope all of you do too. We cannot waste anymore time. The sooner we let go, the sooner we will find love again. I am not ready to date yet, but I do know now what I want and it is not the ex! We all need to take steps to move on and help each other out! We all deserve to be loved. We may have thought the ex was "it", but I have a feeling that we have not experienced true love yet. If someone is not in your life anymore, think of it as a blessing. I wish you all the best!!!!!
Art_Critic Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 We all need to take steps to move on and help each other out! have you changed your phone number yet ??? Make it something of a new years resolutiion.. to remove all ties to the ex..
Author smile95 Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 that would be a great step.....But, he calls work and emails me so it does not let me cut ties......one tie maybe....... I will think about that. if it would guarantee he would never call again, I would, but my cell is my only phone and to call EVERYONE and all businesses and utlilities is a pain only to still be called by him at work. But oh what pleasure that would bring to know he got the "disconnected " message! He would flip
Art_Critic Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 But I'm glad you will think about.. remove the but.. you are holding onto him this way..the rest are just excuses because you want him to call
Author smile95 Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 actaully I realized I have nothing to say to him! I was looking for approval thru him. His call used to =my worthiness. I have nothing to say to this man anymore. My recent loss and his reaction really changed my opinion of him...or maybe I just let myself see the real him.Either way....I feel myself moving on and seeing the real him. Took me long enough!!!!!!!!! It hurts that he must not want me around(well to string along and feed his ego) but not the way I wanted him....thanks for all the tough love Art!
JS17 Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Ok, you can't disrupt your life by changing every phone number and email but you have the power to ignore it. It will irk him just as much if not more to know that you don't care. How satisfying is that?!?! I think you have a good attitude right now Smile95, hold onto it and don't lose that focus as you have in the past. Make this time the one that counts, you deserve better than him.
Art_Critic Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Ok, you can't disrupt your life by changing every phone number and email but you have the power to ignore it. It will irk him just as much if not more to know that you don't care. How satisfying is that?!?! I think you have a good attitude right now Smile95, hold onto it and don't lose that focus as you have in the past. Make this time the one that counts, you deserve better than him. Great inspiring post JS...
JS17 Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Great inspiring post JS... Thanks. Now stop trying to out post me.
patwheel Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Agreed, can't let them win, but still don't want to make it easier for them to mess with our heads again.
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