unimoko Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 My engagement with my fiance just ended terribly. To be honest with you all, I was more in love with his family and the sercruity that having my own family. Which makes me remember my last relationship was more of an attachment to the family life than the man. Okay, any doc will say that it was because of a bad family life of myself and wanting to have that. Okay, I get that. My question to you is how do I learn how to find a man and appreciate him w/o looking more at the family. I want a man who loves family, but isn't a momma's boy! Is that a fine line? Or more importantly, how do I heal from the wounds from my own dysfunctional family. I don't know...... thanks for the advice.
fomerlyniceguy Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 I would hold off meeting the family toill I know my feelings on the other person.
fatcat Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 The grass always seems greener on the other side. Watching my family at a Xmas buffet, they seem normal....NOT. Theyre as dysfunctional as a gay trying to fit in at a monster truck rally. I agree with the other poster...look into the person before the family, because that man may be the only family you may have if things go right, perhaps 40 years down the line.
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