Tricia Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 Just wandering,has any couple you know/knew went for the juglar while fighting,finally separated and ended up being able to forget it all and ended up working everything out? My FIL describes my husband an I best,we are always on attack,we don't know how to argue.We have said the worst things to each other.I guess this time was too much.I feel I am always on the defense with him Thanx, Blond
Becoming Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 My husband and I went through a bad patch like this. Maybe not all out going for the jugular. But horrible things said. Someone described us as two armored knights jousting. Inside the armor, though, are two vulnerable people too afraid to take off the armor. If you can get to those two scared people inside the armor and respect their needs, you have a chance.
Kengne II Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 Yes - this descr my parents. Consistently at each other's throats. 24/7. They are currently back on good terms, but who knows how long this will last? K.
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