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guys who need it spelled out: "not interested"


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i called this guy this morning and told him, "listen, i don't want to be rude to you and i'm sorry i have avoided some of your texts. i think you are direct, communicative, and you deserve respect. you are such a great catch and have so much on the ball, and i have to tell you i feel no chemistry between us to date at all.

Bravo......

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and thanks, grinning maniac. your blunt post really hit home and i am glad you wrote it.

 

i am also thinking about karma....i would want the same.

 

it was really hard to come out and say that, but i just did. it felt horrible, but not as bad as hanging up the phone and praying he would stop asking me out. who the hell did i think i was, getting flattered by a very attractive harvard grad with the best intentions, and COMPLAINING about it. just because i wasn't interested doesn't mean i shouldn't still feel LUCKY, you know?? i do feel lucky...

 

there is a guy i actually AM interested in now, and haven't felt these feelings in over 2 years or so...they are pretty intense...so will you all help me out and respond to a new thread i'm posting about it titled, "how do i pursue his proclaimed 'interest' in this particular situation?" i need help with this one.

 

thanks again all, and i highly encourage people to be better human beings and look out for people's emtotions with more care and conscientousness. the favor will produce something nice in karmic gifts!

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