scobro Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 I sometimes find myself thinking of my ex either having sex or being with some other guy having a great time.What tricks can I use to rid myself of this self destructive thinking because it rips at me and I hate it but cannot help it.?
Art_Critic Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 Go on a date .. find someone else.. Stop staying at home thinking about her.. She doesn't deserve the time you spend thinking about her..
reader Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 Scobro, Pretty soon you will stop thinking about it. I was told once that every minute you waste on a negative thought is a minute you will never get back. Do you think she is thinking about you? I doubt it, not from what I have read on your other threads. So, why would you waste your time if she isn't? Um, not to be obnoxious or anything, but you look pretty nice and I don't really think you will have to worry about this too much longer. Especially if you start finding things in your life to be happy about. Find things to do so you won't think so much. Keep posting.
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