lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 That's not manipulative enough... But thanks. No but it can get you more than you think !! my h is a sucker for my big bedroom eyes!! How you perceive yourself to someone can get you noticed?
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 That's not manipulative enough... But thanks. The manipulation comes after you have their attention. Once the frequent eye contact has begun and you are both constantly looking back and forth obviously interested, then its time to manipulate. I find the brutally honest and naughty approach works best. I don't sugar coat it, if I want you I would tell you what I want to do to you. The truth is while it comes off as forward the curiousity of what it would be like is now planted. Once the curiosity is there your mind is now on sex and the juices began to flow. The yes is more to come once that happens. Just talking about sex gets a lot of people worked up, just look around this forum. Try whispering in their ear what you are thinking of doing to them.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 The manipulation comes after you have their attention. Once the frequent eye contact has begun and you are both constantly looking back and forth obviously interested, then its time to manipulate. I find the brutally honest and naughty approach works best. I don't sugar coat it, if I want you I would tell you what I want to do to you. The truth is while it comes off as forward the curiousity of what it would be like is now planted. Once the curiosity is there your mind is now on sex and the juices began to flow. The yes is more to come once that happens. Just talking about sex gets a lot of people worked up, just look around this forum. Try whispering in their ear what you are thinking of doing to them. Totally agree with that loony!!
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 How you perceive yourself to someone can get you noticed? I'm not quite sure, is this a question for me?
RecordProducer Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 What's your opinion on this? And have you ever used tricks and manipulation in order to get someone? How far would you go? What is acceptable? What tricks did you try and which worked? I think we all are trying to show ourselves in the best light in order to seduce someone. We do it spontaneously and instinctively (we're sweet, kind, generous, show off our qualities, look the best we can, etc.) and that's oaky. But when people fake it - it's bad. Anything that's dishonest might work in the short run, but the truth will be discovered sooner or later. It's not in our favor to pretend that we're something that we are not cuz we will cause huge disappointment deep into the relationship. So I always vote for open cards from the very beginning. Men use compliments, generousity, and kindness as manipulative techiques. They are not always fake. Some men brag about their success with women or at work, but I think it sucks.
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 The manipulation comes after you have their attention. Once the frequent eye contact has begun and you are both constantly looking back and forth obviously interested, then its time to manipulate. I find the brutally honest and naughty approach works best. I don't sugar coat it, if I want you I would tell you what I want to do to you. The truth is while it comes off as forward the curiousity of what it would be like is now planted. Once the curiosity is there your mind is now on sex and the juices began to flow. The yes is more to come once that happens. Just talking about sex gets a lot of people worked up, just look around this forum. Try whispering in their ear what you are thinking of doing to them. Interesting. What would you do if she's not interested, but you still want her?
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Interesting. What would you do if she's not interested, but you still want her? You keep flirting and making subtle hints that it is there for the taking if they want it. If you give up then the moment is lost and more than likely the interest dwindles. You have to keep the interests peeked but be patient. You don't keep knocking on the door if it isn't ready to be open but you stay with in eyes sight and you come back every now and then.
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 You keep flirting and making subtle hints that it is there for the taking if they want it. If you give up then the moment is lost and more than likely the interest dwindles. You have to keep the interests peeked but be patient. You don't keep knocking on the door if it isn't ready to be open but you stay with in eyes sight and you come back every now and then. Boy, you have self-confidence. Most guys I know are not like this.
JS17 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Loony, you're not really drawing the line between manipulative seduction and plain old interaction and game play. Manipulators either don't know that they're manipulating or they are so conscious of it that they will never share their secrets.
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Boy, you have self-confidence. Most guys I know are not like this. Confidence is a double edge sword, while it can be an attractive quality it can come off as arrogant if applied wrong. But I like to think both men and women prefer a confident mate and not some patsy.
hotgurl Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 A low cut top. aand while talking to them caress your collar bone. actually guys are easy all you have to do it show up.
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 Loony, you're not really drawing the line between manipulative seduction and plain old interaction and game play. Manipulators either don't know that they're manipulating or they are so conscious of it that they will never share their secrets. Ok, I just want to hear about the mean stuff. Then I will put my question differently, maybe you heard or saw someone else, not you of course, use a dirty trick. Do you still mind to share with us? Please?
hotgurl Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 You keep flirting and making subtle hints that it is there for the taking if they want it. If you give up then the moment is lost and more than likely the interest dwindles. You have to keep the interests peeked but be patient. You don't keep knocking on the door if it isn't ready to be open but you stay with in eyes sight and you come back every now and then. so how far are you willing to go with someone who iss "difficult to seduce"
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I'm not quite sure, is this a question for me? yes it was for you loony!!
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 yes it was for you loony!! Ok, could you repeat it? I didn't understand it...
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 A low cut top. aand while talking to them caress your collar bone. actually guys are easy all you have to do it show up. Totally agree with you on that hotgurl .. wear something skimpy works too but i think it is also in the eyes too!!
tanbark813 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 You're asking the wrong questions, loony. There are no mean or dirty tricks. There also isn't some super-secret magic trick that will make a woman not into you suddenly rip off her panties and mount you. There are techniques you can use (which would take up many pages to describe) to enhance your game but they're more focused on making yourself look better and not so much on manipulating the other person. Unless you're talking about neuro-linguistic programming but even that is subtle. It's not like it will give you jedi mind powers over someone. It's really no different than what ALPHA said about women wearing make-up, push-bras, miniskirts, etc.. Men are visual creatures so women seduce with visual techniques. Women are verbal creatures so men seduce with verbal techniques. Lastly, seducing a woman does not go hand in hand with being a gigolo and using women. Some people will apply these techniques to screw women over and take their money. That, I agree, is wrong. But many men just want to better their game and, ultimately, find that girl of their dreams to be in a relationship with.
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 You have to appeal to something that you think that person will fall for.. for example.. a lot of women would jump any guy that they think can rock their world better than anybody they have ever had.. Once you have their attention you work that angle until they think that if they sleep with you it will be the best.. I one time many years ago ( I was young ) worked on this one girl I would see every day at a place I went to eat.. I spent some time with idle chat for days.. then I let it slip that I knew 16 different things to do with a cube of ice.. She blew it of as being funny.. But the next day I asked her how many she could think of.. For the next few days she thought about it.. I came in one day and she told me that she had thought of 11.. I told her I had thought of 3 more.. That is all it took.. sex was only hrs away.. Chessy yes .. Did I seduce her.. yes.. why did it work ? Because I let her believe that I knew something about sex that she had never heard of and I also let her believe that I would rock her world.. Is that the kind of deception you are looking for ?
JS17 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 My dirty manipulative secret is my hot pockets necklace. Boys and men can not resist hot pockets.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 My dirty manipulative secret is my hot pockets necklace. Boys and men can not resist hot pockets. lol!!
westernxer Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Boys and men can not resist hot pockets. Especially the one near your thighs. </wicked intentions>
alphamale Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 alpha's seduction secrets: - let the women come to me - play hard to get and alternate between interest and aloofness - undress her with your eyeballs - when she's ready and prepped for sex (1st time) tell her "we shouln't do this, its too early for me...) he he he he - whisper into her ear - get her drunk/loaded/lit/buzzed/hammered - take her dancing - a nice dinner at a nice place is always an aphrodisiac for most females - touch her wrist and forearm ever so lightly - tell her she's beautiful and sexy - tell her what I want and like.... - show her I am dominant, confident and know all her "tricks" - be playful, funny and keep things light
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 so how far are you willing to go with someone who iss "difficult to seduce" As far as it takes until you get what you want so long as nobody gets hurt.
hotgurl Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 alpha's seduction secrets: - when she's ready and prepped for sex (1st time) tell her "we shouln't do this, its too early for me...) he he he he - naughty, that's a good one.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 when she's ready and prepped for sex (1st time) tell her "we shouln't do this, its too early for me...) he he he he - whisper into her ear Hotgurl don't most men do that to make us girl's feel we are special and they aren't trying to get in our pants !!! You know make us trust them more!!
Recommended Posts