loony Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I've been reading about a couple of seduction techniques from dating gurus (David DeAngelo and Ross Jeffries for your information) lately and some I find kind of unethical as you are manipulating people on a subconscious level. What's your opinion on this? And have you ever used tricks and manipulation in order to get someone? How far would you go? What is acceptable? What tricks did you try and which worked? Me, I don't like it when someone tries to seduce me when I'm not interested in dating him. One of my brother's friend once came to visit him and started hanging out in my room while waiting for my brother. He was obviously into me and he blew on the nape of my neck when I wasn't paying attention (obviously I had turned my back to him ) and, um, yeah, I experienced a physical reaction, but I was pretty annoyed, too. It had been clear that I wasn't interested in him and I think it also lacks a bit of respect when someone tries to hit on his friend's sister. It later turned out he used some women to borrow large sums of money from them and never paid it back. He's a gigolo and not a very decent person, my brother and he are also not friends anymore. I'm not the most assertive person when it comes to guys, so I leave the approaching part to them usually. So, I don't really know any tricks... And when it comes to sex women don't really have to work that hard for it anyway.
alphamale Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I'm not the most assertive person when it comes to guys, so I leave the approaching part to them usually. So, I don't really know any tricks... what tricks does a woman need to know besides wear makeup and a push-up bra, short skirt and heels
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 In my mind there are no such things as seduction TRICKS.. You are assuming that seduction in itself is above board.. seduction is exactly that seduction.. Anything goes.. I have a few secrets I have used to seduce a woman.. but they are patented and I can't give 'em up on a public board..
alphamale Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I have a few things I have used to seduce.. but they are patented and I can't give 'em up on a public board.. what about your rolled-up-tube-sock-in-the-pants trick?
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 I have a few secrets I have used to seduce a woman.. but they are patented and I can't give 'em up on a public board.. Come on!!!! Pleeeeaaaaase!! *in addition to my first post: What's your opinion about these dating gurus? ** PM is also ok, but it surely would be nicer and more useful for everybody if people could post here.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 what tricks does a woman need to know besides wear makeup and a push-up bra, short skirt and heels Only Alpha would say that !!
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 In my mind there are no such things as seduction TRICKS.. You are assuming that seduction in itself is above board.. seduction is exactly that seduction.. Anything goes.. I have a few secrets I have used to seduce a woman.. but they are patented and I can't give 'em up on a public board.. roflmao!!:lmao waiting to hear details!!!! lol
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 what about your rolled-up-tube-sock-in-the-pants trick? bad bad Alpha not nice!!
a4a Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 what about your rolled-up-tube-sock-in-the-pants trick? AHHHHH Be careful to place it in the front and not the back of the pants my friends! a4a
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 The best seduction secret I have ever used is to just look into a womans eyes when you are talking to her. Loony.. I don't know anything about those authors.. but I don't think seduction is anything that one can read about.. it is an art
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 The best seduction secret I have ever used is to just look into a womans eyes when you are talking to her. I want to know the dirty tricks... Have I discovered the only taboo topic here on LS, the one nobody wants to talk about?! Fess up!
luvtoto Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Bending over to pick something up while wearing a flattering pair of jeans...I pretend he's not watching...but, I ain't stupid!
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I want to know the dirty tricks... Have I discovered the only taboo topic here on LS, the one nobody wants to talk about?! Fess up! Fine you want to break out the big guns....my dirty trick is to ask if they want to see my eel skin watch, at which point I break out my johnson and wrap it around my wrist (twice), that pretty much seals the deal for me. Let me know how it works out for ya.
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Loony.. you have to have a willing participant to be able to seduce someone.. You said it yourself with your brothers friend.. Now if you had let yourself be seduced his trick of blowing on your neck would've worked. Personally before I will try and seduce a woman I need to have some sort of connection with her.. If I do.. it will alway's work
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Fine you want to break out the big guns....my dirty trick is to ask if they want to see my eel skin watch, at which point I break out my johnson and wrap it around my wrist (twice), that pretty much seals the deal for me. Let me know how it works out for ya. ROFLMAO!!!
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 No guy is going to give up his secrets.. ever It's the unwritten code we live by.. same as the magicians code
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I want to know the dirty tricks... Have I discovered the only taboo topic here on LS, the one nobody wants to talk about?! Fess up! I don't have no dirty tricks up my sleeve just flirt with them and bat my big baby blues and they are putty in my hands!!!!
slubberdegullion Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 No guy is going to give up his secrets.. ever It's the unwritten code we live by.. same as the magicians code That's right... except, of course, that the "guy's manual on seduction" is a lot more fun than pulling a rabbit out of a hat!
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 Loony.. you have to have a willing participant to be able to seduce someone.. You said it yourself with your brothers friend.. Now if you had let yourself be seduced his trick of blowing on your neck would've worked. Personally before I will try and seduce a woman I need to have some sort of connection with her.. If I do.. it will alway's work But that's my point, he actually did get a reaction from me, I just stopped myself consciously from going further down this path. I'm talking about tricks where you can take someone by surprise and overrule his usual reservation. To the other poster, I don't mind a little bit of banter, but keep it within a reasonable amount, please.
luvtoto Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 my hump my hump my hump my hump my hump!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TUDOR Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Loony it is harder to say no than it is to say yes. The key is to be persistant and encouraging to get that yes. To do that you have to gain their trust and you do that by making strong eye contact. The eyes are the window to the soul and the right look followed with a great smile is hard to resist. The other thing is attention, some people are attention whores and love the spotlight. If you turn it on and then take away they will come to you trying to get more out of you. There are numerous things you can do but it is all about the power of suggestion and making some feel safe enough to give you that yes.
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 No guy is going to give up his secrets.. ever It's the unwritten code we live by.. same as the magicians code Then send me a PM.
lilmoma1973 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Loony it is harder to say no than it is to say yes. The key is to be persistant and encouraging to get that yes. To do that you have to gain their trust and you do that by making strong eye contact. The eyes are the window to the soul and the right look followed with a great smile is hard to resist. The other thing is attention, some people are attention whores and love the spotlight. If you turn it on and then take away they will come to you trying to get more out of you. There are numerous things you can do but it is all about the power of suggestion and making some feel safe enough to give you that yes. Great post Tudor im a sucker for eyes!!!!
Author loony Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 Loony it is harder to say no than it is to say yes. The key is to be persistant and encouraging to get that yes. To do that you have to gain their trust and you do that by making strong eye contact. The eyes are the window to the soul and the right look followed with a great smile is hard to resist. The other thing is attention, some people are attention whores and love the spotlight. If you turn it on and then take away they will come to you trying to get more out of you. There are numerous things you can do but it is all about the power of suggestion and making some feel safe enough to give you that yes. That's not manipulative enough... But thanks.
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