sexxxie_playboy Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 my boyfriend went to romania for 5 weeks in the summer and HE'S only 16 btw and he started smoking, going to a TON of clubs, and got drunk a lot. I found out 2 days ago that he went to a strip club and before he left to romania he made promises to not do ANY OF THOSE THINGS. well he admitted to the strip club and said that he didn't cheat on me there. this summer was **** for me, and i've been lied to so many times i just CAN NOT get over it and i think about it all the time and i can't look at him the same way anymore. I know he's guilty...but what should i do? Should i "punish" him somehow? I just want him to realize that what he did was horrible and that no bad deeds go unpunished.
Second-best Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 if he promised he wouldn't do any of those things, and then he did... do you think you can trust him again? I'm not trying to insinuate anything, I'm jus askin u to really think bout that. Personally, I'd leave, because if you can't see him the same way again, then that problem is ALWAYS going to be on your mind, and it'll just hurt you more every time you see him til one of you ends it. I really hope things work out for you.
XSTRIPPER Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 THEY DONT WANT YOUR BOYFRIEND, THEY WANT HIS MONEY AND MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO YOU FROM EXPERIENCE IS TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO SPEND THAT MONEY ON YOU AND NOT WASTE IT ON A STRIPPER OR WASTE HIS TIME. HE HAS NOT GROWN UP OR HES JUST DUM. SOME GUYS NEVER GET OUT OF THAT LIFE AND WANT THE EXCITMENT AND STILL KEEP THEIR GIRLFRIENDS...DONT ALLOW IT, IT MAKES IT HARDER FOR US GIRLS WHEN SOME STUPID GIRL ALLOWS THEM TO GET AWAY WITH IT.
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