CaliGuy Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 Does anyone have any suggestions that worked for them for getting over an Ex? I am obsessed with wondering what she is doing and who she is with. Somehow, some way, I need to get over her. I can think of all the bad things she did, but that only lasts so long. I can think about her bringing her new b/f to my house and making out in front of my garage, but I just get angry. It's not making me get over her. I know it takes time, but I somehow can't see to go more than a few minutes each day without her creeping back into my mind. I try to force the thought away and tell myself I am better off, but it's agonizing. Suggestions?!
simon sez Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 You are on the right track. Start dating others. Be seen around town with a new woman on your arm.... Just tell yourself you are going to be a "happy", fun person and live life to it's fullest..... Men who are successful with women don't waste time looking back and pining. They move on QUICKLY and decisively... Here are a few good quotes to memerize and put into your "self talk"... "She WILL be back.. They ALL come back"... "Women are a dime a dozen... AND I always have a dime in my pocket"..... "Women are like buses... if you miss one, there is always another coming right around the corner"....... "I am a slow healer... It took me almost 2 days to get over my last woman":laugh:
Author CaliGuy Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 "She WILL be back.. They ALL come back"... LOL. Not sure I believe this but that's good to hear. If she does come back it will be her asking for something and then slowly, she will want to creep back into my life and test me to see if I have changed.
AltplanB Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Do all women secretly want to see how your doing down the line, and as to whether you have changed? Do they do it even with distance between you two? I believe mine will but i don't know how i will be when that time comes. I also dont know if it will be next week or 6 months.
tanbark813 Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Crack open some beers and watch Swingers 100 times.
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