RottenGazebo Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Hi... I met Kristen in a school play. I didn't think I liked her, but I could never stop thinking about her. She gave me her phone number, and one day we talked for ten hours straight. We soon became friends. But...I wanted a lot more than that. I was in love. I soon told her how I felt. She was a little freaked out about the love thing, but she said I was cute. So...we decided to be boyfriend/girlfriend. I went to her house today. We watched TV and talked. Before I left, she told me that she didn't like me in that way and she just wanted to be friends. At first I was ok with this. Until I got home. This was the worst pain in the world. But, I don't think she knew me well enough. What can I do? Should I try to get her back? I love her. Do I deserve a second chance?
omegaRED Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Ummm... It`s not like a second chance dude. From experience, "Let`s just be friends" rarely evolves into a relationship. You`re stuck there, i`m afraid. Don`t get me wrong, friends-->lovers works often, however, if you already told her how you feel, and she said LJBF, you`re stuck. No way out of that place i`m afraid. Maybe some of the girls here will give more insight on this, but IMHO, sorry bud. Wrong side of the lover/friend barbed wire fence. Without a ladder.
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 7, 2005 Author Posted December 7, 2005 Ummm... It`s not like a second chance dude. From experience, "Let`s just be friends" rarely evolves into a relationship. You`re stuck there, i`m afraid. Don`t get me wrong, friends-->lovers works often, however, if you already told her how you feel, and she said LJBF, you`re stuck. No way out of that place i`m afraid. Maybe some of the girls here will give more insight on this, but IMHO, sorry bud. Wrong side of the lover/friend barbed wire fence. Without a ladder.Yeah...but we never had an actual date. Do you think that she could of at least gave me more of a chance?
omegaRED Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 Doubtfull. See http://www.laddertheory.com/. It`s a bit on the funny side, but very close to how things are in reality.
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 So you think there is no chance that she will want to be more than friends?
omegaRED Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 I`m not saying there isn`t a chance. It`s slim, at best. What i`m saying is that you`re worrying too much about a girl you hardly know. Relax. It`s not like you had a relationship and you`re losing it. Chill, get some distance, limit contact and it`ll pass. If she wants to be something more, the ball is in her court, she knows how you feel.
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 8, 2005 Author Posted December 8, 2005 There's no way I can limit contact. We're friends, we talk daily.
chocolate_boy Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 There's no way I can limit contact. We're friends, we talk daily. Well if you're happy just being her friend and nothing more then stick with that, and that's what you'll get.
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 9, 2005 Author Posted December 9, 2005 Ok...Yes I would love to be more than friends. In a second. But it's hard to limit contact. We talk daily. It'd be like not petting your dog everyday.
chocolate_boy Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 Ok...Yes I would love to be more than friends. In a second. But it's hard to limit contact. We talk daily. It'd be like not petting your dog everyday. Send her to pound dude!
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 Send her to pound dude!Ok...not funny! But seriously what can I do to try to convince her to like me more?
omegaRED Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 Ok...not funny! But seriously what can I do to try to convince her to like me more? Nothing. Seriosly.
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 10, 2005 Author Posted December 10, 2005 If she did like me, what would be some of the signs?
AriaIncognito Posted December 10, 2005 Posted December 10, 2005 She's already told you she just wanted to be friends. You need to accept this and move onto someone who is willing to be more than that. You've already stated that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend. There's nothing you can do to get someone to like you. Chemistry is either there, or it's not, in most cases. You dont want to force it. So, I agree with all the previous posters in saying, move on!!! Jennifer
chocolate_boy Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 If she did like me, what would be some of the signs? She's probably be trying to kiss you, maybe flirting lots to try and get you into bed.. wanting to spend romantic time with you and asking if she could be your girlfriend....
chocolate_boy Posted December 11, 2005 Posted December 11, 2005 Ok...not funny! But seriously what can I do to try to convince her to like me more? Why would you want to have to convince someone to like you?
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 12, 2005 Author Posted December 12, 2005 Why would you want to have to convince someone to like you? Because, she's the most beautiful person I know. I am in love with her. And I really care about her. I want to marry her.
omegaRED Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 RottenGazebo, just out of curiosity, how old are you?
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 12, 2005 Author Posted December 12, 2005 RottenGazebo, just out of curiosity, how old are you? I'm older than Dakota Fanning.
sunaddict1 Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 WOW! you need to move on! You are going to chase her away if you are too in her face. a girl likes a challenge. you need to act like you ARENT interested! just settle with friends.....you are still young!
Author RottenGazebo Posted December 12, 2005 Author Posted December 12, 2005 WOW! you need to move on! You are going to chase her away if you are too in her face. a girl likes a challenge. you need to act like you ARENT interested! just settle with friends.....you are still young! How do ya know how old I am?
IrishCarBomb Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 How do ya know how old I am? Well, you posted how old you are.... so it's really not a mystery. You're 13 and she's 16. Are you dense? Take the advice given, and move on.
Outcast Posted December 13, 2005 Posted December 13, 2005 Great song sung by Bonnie Raitt "I can't make you love me". Buy it, listen to it. It's how life is.
Author RottenGazebo Posted January 6, 2007 Author Posted January 6, 2007 Great song sung by Bonnie Raitt "I can't make you love me". Buy it, listen to it. It's how life is. ^^^ I'll try that.
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