NightsInWhiteSatin Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 On a few occasions through the past five months when my b/f has been drunk he has told me all his really deep deep thoughts and feelings about me and our relationship. He does tell me how he feels about me and us a little bit when he's sober...just not that often or in any detail really...i think he doesnt want to feel 'like a girl' as he puts it...but sometimes i really really just need to hear it from him, i'd like to know what he's thinking deep down inside about us and how he feels about everything but i dont wanna just turn round and say 'tell me how you feel about me and us deep down inside' because he'll feel pressured then and i dont want that, i want to encourage him and coax it out of him gently and slowly if necessary. Does anyone know what i mean...or have any suggestions?????????
a4a Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Encourage him to drink more frequently. oh my! and tie him up and threaten him with a hot poker! Maybe he has reasons why he is not comfortable sharing those feelings with you..... ask about that... why do you have trouble saying what is on your mind? Fear of rejection, fear of being pressured into saying what he does not really mean, or maybe sees it as a serious sign of weakness. booze and a hot poker should get your answers tho.... a4a
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