chickenleggs Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Does anyone believe in Karma-what goes around comes around- and does anyone have any examples of it happening to them or other people. My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years has just dumped me for her boss at work a married man of 17 years with 3 kids. I would like to think everything will not work out for them after she has caused me so much hurt. I am getting over it now its been 6 weeks but cant get the thought of them having a terrific time together out of my head. Does anyone believe in Karma???
lilmoma1973 Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Yes i firmly believe that what goes around comes around!! How you treat people will come back on you good or bad..
Author chickenleggs Posted December 6, 2005 Author Posted December 6, 2005 Thats good my ex should be in for a rough time then!!
newbby Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 i believe in karma as being something that happens if you ignore your intuition. it is clear that people do not get back what they give out always, look around.
ahotmess Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I feel that you get back what you intentionallygive out
lilmoma1973 Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I feel that you get back what you intentionallygive out Totally agree with you on that !!
Katch22 Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 At one point and time I was in love with a very close friend who worshiped the ground I walked on and would've given me anything in the world to stay with him and loved my daughter more then life it's self!! And I choose to go back to my ex to try and work on things once more to make sure that there was no possiblity of us working things out. And sure enough I left him and broke my friends heart and the final outcome was just what my firend said it would be. We would be divorced and I would be sorry!!! And I sure am till this day. But now KARMA has come around to get me, I'm hopelessly in love with a friend who also made the decision to go back and try to work on things and has left me and broke my heart!! So yes what comes around does go around you just have to be able to step back and take a look around and you will see it more often!! Hope this was helpful!! Katch
Sami_D Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 Well sh** happens... sh** happens to everyone. If you need to believe that it's because of something else that you (or someone) did, then I suppose that's what you need to believe. If your ex g/f is involved with a MM, then I don't think Karma needs to be invoked to suggest she's going to have a bad time. Why not stop hoping she's going to get sh** because you're hurting. Or don't you believe in karma for bad thoughts/desire for revenge..?
wyldflower Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 You got in one, Sami D, as usual. I like your style girl! Never judgemental and you always tell it like it is. In my opinion, chicken legs, karma is not a method to gain revenge nor hope that some sort of punishment will befall the one who hurt you. Chances are she was being true to herself, her heart and followed the path she felt was right for her. I, myself, had to make the same decision and leave a man who really loved me for the one I loved. My ex still won't speak to me and i understand... I hurt him. But did I do it out of spite, cruelty, lack of respect or concern on his behalf? No. Do I deserve to have some sort of horrible karmaic return? No. Do I deserve to live the life I've chosen (which wasn't the easiest choice of the two, mind you, but so far has proven to be the right one!)? Yes! I am sorry, you're hurting. It sucks having your heart broken. But it's something most, if not all, of us have to go through. Karma? No. Life? Yep!
Art_Critic Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 Karma is nothing more than someone setting themselves up.. nothing more.. It isn't about some divine intervention. For example Someone that would cheat on a SO is lacking in judgement skills and morals.. Someone that is lacking in judgement and morals is going to have more bad things happen to them because of this.. Not because they cheated on their SO.. but it looks like karma or what we call karma
travellingman Posted December 12, 2005 Posted December 12, 2005 I don't know, I was very honest with both my wife and the OW in the situation I had six years ago, and it didn't really get me good karma. But it shouldn't be really. I don't see what you get out of someone else being miserable.
mopar crazy Posted December 16, 2005 Posted December 16, 2005 I honestly believe karma is a load of crap. But that is JMO. I believe what Sami and AC said. A few months ago I had a vent on another forum I visit. I was upset about having to shell out $170 in unused propane from the rental house I moved out of. My landlord was not willing to work w/ me on the propane that was left in the tank and I was still paying the bill for the propane. So, yes I was pissed I had to shell out almost $200 for someone else to use my propane. I am not well off financially to pay this PLUS my own natural gas bill (which is doubling, errr!) Anyhow, several weeks after the vent about the propane my car broke down, but TG I had an extended warranty. Anyhow, one of the women that replied to my propane vent thread and basically said I was selfish. I vented my car broke down and her only reply to my thread was "Hmmmm, karma?" I believe my car broke down for a reason at the time. Maybe it was b/c my extended warranty was expiring and God knew if it didn't break when I still had the warranty I wouldn't have had the funds to pay for the repair. s*** happens to everyone, it's life. s*** doesn't happen to someone b/c they treat or do something bad. s*** happens to everyone, good and bad. As for your G, if something bad is going to happen to her it's not b/c of karma, it's b/c she is screwing around w/ a MM and she will get hers in the end.
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