Tricia Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I have finally calmed down enough to think straight!!! Took long enough:o My husband treats me almost like I am a stranger,no emotion towards me at all,an when I see a hint-He instantly pulls back.I told him he his fighting his Love for me with everything he has-Nothing I can do. I have decided I'm "Burn't"on it.I no longer want to be made feel like I don't matter.I am getting stronger everyday.I have not shed 1 tear since Thursday. Beings he won't talk to me about US,I sent him a text letting him know what my plans are.I wrote in this text,that since he is so indifferent with me and does not want to talk about US(Says he has heard it all b4),I felt this was the only way. Anyway,I told him that on the first business day of the New Year,I will be filing for Divorce.I didn't get a reply back,also didn't expect one. I don't know if I did the right thing or not,all I know is I can't deal with this situation the way it is anymore. Any thoughts, Thanx,Blond
Scott S Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I'm sorry to read that it came to this, & I still hope that he wakes up & realizes what is happening. Meanwhile, I am glad to read that you have garnered the courage to take care of yourself. In a perect world, or at least a good relationship, he should be taking care of you, & vice versa. But since that is no longer the case, you do need to take care of yourself.
slubberdegullion Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Congratulations, Tricia, on taking the bull by the horns and getting on with your life.
Skeered Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Sounds like you are getting that great inner strength that we all need in a situation like this. The inner you that gets lost once in a while. Hold tight...keep strong and don't back down. If he wants to talk and try to work things out, hear him out but continue to hold tight to what you feel is best (which could mean that after you hear him out you might want to give this a 2nd chance, you see what I mean).
GuySimple Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 You go girl!! Make sure you toast to a new life on New Years.
Author Tricia Posted December 6, 2005 Author Posted December 6, 2005 Thanx U guy's I so appreciate ur support.I need it right now.Can't figure out his way of thinking,but I'm trying not to worry about HIS WAY of thinking.I am #1 right now!!!! I'm gonna be OK!!!!! Thanx again, Blond PS--I mighta jus flipped tha script,without even knowing it!!!!!!!!!!!!
Becoming Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 Been wondering about you and your situation. Sounds like you're doing well--at least yesterday you were. There'll be ups and downs. Just wanted to let you know no matter how much it might feel like it, you're not alone. We're proof that there are folks out there who do care about you, and you can find them face to face, too. Blessings and continued prayers!
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