RecordProducer Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Thanks for hi-jacking my thread, guys. Just wanted to start a new thread about this topic since mine turned into something totally different from the initial post, plus my problem is solved. 1. I DO NOT think that photos and memories of ex-lovers should be destroyed. 2. I DO think that jealousy can destroy a wonderful relationship. 3. I DO NOT think that jeaous people don't deserve to be in a relationship. 4. I DO believe in openess rather than hiding things. 5. I DO believe that a jealous woman's behavior may cause her man to hide things from the past or present from her. 6. I DO think that everyone has a right to have friends of the opposite sex. 7. I DO NOT think that it's nice to hide female friends from your GF/wife or hide your relationship/marriage from your female friends. 8. I DO think that trust is a must, but it must stand on a solid ground based on honesty and openess; love and trust are not unlimitedly unconditional by their nature - they are "fragile goods" so guys, make sure you don't lose your woman's trust because of some unimportant friend on the net that you never told her about (and never told your friend that you were in a relationship/married).
ReluctantRomeo Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Thanks for hi-jacking my thread, guys. Our pleasure! Let's see what I can do here... 1. I DO NOT think that photos and memories of ex-lovers should be destroyed. 6. I DO think that everyone has a right to have friends of the opposite sex. But they should be controlled and kept within bounds. Sometimes this means destruction of photos and the scaling down of a friendship, for the good of the relationship. I speak as the king of platonic friendships with girls, including ex-gfs. This is great, but any Juliet needs to be assured that she has no rivals. 7. I DO NOT think that it's nice to hide female friends from your GF/wife or hide your relationship/marriage from your female friends. Anything that needs to be hidden shows a problem of some kind.
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