xLOPES Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 okay, i am currently going out with this girl who ive only been going out with about 3 and a half weeks, and right now, i have no interest with staying together with her. Its not like i hate her or anything, or anything has gone wrong, but that im just not interested anymore. my question of the day is... if i were to break up with her, what exact words should i say, and please, no lame excuses. Please.. Answer!
Walk Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Tell her, "I've enjoyed our time together, but no long wish to go out with you." Let her know she's a great person, you really think she'll make some guy very happy, that she's attractive, etc., but that you don't have that spark for her and that you respect her enough to be honest and up front with her. Basically, let her know she's a good person, just not who you're looking for in life. Tell her the bad news up front, then ease it with the fact that you really respect who she is, and want to see the best for her. blah. blah. Anyway you do it, it's gonna hurt her to some degree. Whatever you do though, let her know what's going on, and do it face to face. Common curtesy.
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