lonely4you Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 On a previous post, i talked about how this guy should he liked me and then the next day said he wasnt sure how he felt about me, like he wanted to break away or something to that effect, but wanted to work on it..see how it goes i presume. Well, i dont call him, i never go out of my way to see him, but he still will approach me. i told him, i dont even know what we are and he said i dont know ether. At this point, i have just kinda shrugged him off. It seems like we almost pretend like i never told him that i liked him and he never kissed me on the forehead and such...i really just dont know anymore. is he just talking to me for the hell of it? I am confused! we talk maybe 5 minutes each day i believe...something like that.
BonneChatte Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Let me guess you both have about 16 years? It sounds like he's not looking for a relationship...he wants to see what is available to him. Don't be his fall back plan. Stand your ground and don't allow yourself to be his doormat. I am sure you are very intelligent and wonderful young woman. You really don't need any extra drama from an indecisive boy do you? Be upfront with him...tell him you don't appreciate his schizophrenia and tell him you want to know where you stand. If you don't get the answer you really want...move on.
Author lonely4you Posted December 6, 2005 Author Posted December 6, 2005 i have thought of telling him, but at this point i have just given up. He always seems to do this to me or at least when we attempted to date last year...it always seems to end up him being this way but i dont understand why it is me? he dated someone over summer and they broke up due to a communication problem. First, he likes me next time he isnt so sure...he likes me...he likes me not. it is extremely stupid. I am just numb with him, when he told me that, i just said i am done and got over him pretty quick or at least it seems this way. i dont know how i should act with him because once i think its okay to show that i like him, he tells me this. so i guess for my protection i just stay back and become emotionless. What else can i do?
itwontdawnsooner Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 what can you do? be selfish. protect your feelings and dont let yourself be put through waves of emotion because he can't figure himself out. dont wait around, act towards him as youd act toward an acquiatance. be consistant, and put your guard up - if you cant get a read, this is the safe way to go... youve tried and tried! dont torment yourself
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