Mydish1 Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 So i've been seeing this girl for a few weeks already and we've been on 4 dates. But whenever i go in for a kiss, all she keeps giving me is the side of her lip! It is driving me nuts, i want to know why she's doing this...I know she's christian and all, but is that a reason to take things slow? Do some girls wait to keep a kiss for someone they love or something..? So far she's very responsive when i call her/text her. However for a week she hasnt been doing any and waits for me to. And she does have a pretty high interest level in me. i just dont know why she's doing all this. I wouldnt mind if she contacted me every once in awhile. I'm never desperate when im around her, and she knows that. But i dont know what she wants from me.
slubberdegullion Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 Sounds like she's playing you to feed her ego. If you've been the one initiating contact all the time, it's time for her to make the first move now. And don't try to kiss her again until she initiates.
Author Mydish1 Posted December 5, 2005 Author Posted December 5, 2005 Sounds like she's playing you to feed her ego. If you've been the one initiating contact all the time, it's time for her to make the first move now. And don't try to kiss her again until she initiates. well...everyone wants their ego fed every now and then. maybe it is a little bit with her, but not entirely true. She does me favors, i ask about her day she asks about mine, etc. And she does seem to care about me. What we do on dates is similar to a real couple...except i dont get a real kiss. In the beginning she chased me and contacted me, but it seems now she's left me with that job. I know she wont kiss me or hold my hand until i do. Afterall i've been the one to initiate all that so far. She's somewhat shy but not really. But i dunno, i was planning to txt her today, maybe i'll let it slide into day 3 of no contact and see if she contacts me
gfto Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 You say she has high interest level in you? Sounds to me like she has LOW interest level in you. When you move in for a kiss, she gives you the side of her lips! Sounds like you might have a professional dater. She'll just run up your Visa bill, while you keep waiting for that kiss. It isn't going to happen. I'd flush her number.
jasmine111 Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 Maybe she wants her first kiss to be special. It's kind of the same for me I don't usually call this guy, he usually contacts me. I'm shy and it's kind of an ego thing, but I really do like him. Mostly because I think he's using me, but that's besides the point. She just sounds really shy. How old is she? Maybe she's new to the dating thing or she was brought up different since she's Christian. If you really are interested in her and you're sure she is too then be patient. Otherwise if she continues not to contact you for a while, move on.
JoL Posted December 6, 2005 Posted December 6, 2005 I have to agree with the others...it seems like this girl likes having her ego fed. Plus, turning her cheek when you try to kiss her tells me she is either a. not really interested. b. playing super-hard to get c. a prude
Author Mydish1 Posted December 6, 2005 Author Posted December 6, 2005 She'll just run up your Visa bill, while you keep waiting for that kiss. It isn't going to happen. I'd flush her number. nono it isnt like that. We take turns paying for stuff on dates. She's a cool girl. I was quite surprised when seh did that on the first date. Maybe she wants her first kiss to be special. It's kind of the same for me I don't usually call this guy, he usually contacts me. I'm shy and it's kind of an ego thing, but I really do like him. Mostly because I think he's using me, but that's besides the point. She just sounds really shy. How old is she? Maybe she's new to the dating thing or she was brought up different since she's Christian. If you really are interested in her and you're sure she is too then be patient. Otherwise if she continues not to contact you for a while, move on. Well she's the same age as me , 21. If i remember right, the last bf she had was 2/3 years ago in h.s, and he broke up with her. As for dating or whatever in these past couple years for her i dont know, but knowing her personality it doesnt seem like she has. perhaps her lack of experience is the reason she's taking things slow, even the kiss. Well actually the 2nd attempt i made for the kiss (and upon getting her side lip again), she went on to explaining why she did the same for the first time. How she did not have my # yet and she didnt think i was that kind of guy....but excuses if you ask me. you guys are right. I was going to wish her luck today on her project getting into the show. i dont think i'll do that...ill give her a few days.
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