loverrr Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 This man i am in love with and he knows i am has written me a note telling me that he is getting a hand "sexually" with someone else and wants to know my thoughts on it? He also wanted to know if he can have sex with me as his Xmas pressie?? Is he for real? Help what should i do, i really love this man, we're not together, but now i am having second thoughts about purusing someone like that.... Am i making a big deal out of nothing?
Outcast Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 You do realize it is the middle of the night.
loony Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 You do realize it is the middle of the night. Yeah, it's party time for the insomniacs. loverrr, you should dump this man immediately. He's more than disrespectful and some things should be set straight in the beginning unless you want him to believe you're a doormat and he can just do what he wants. Actually, he thinks already that you're a doormat. Telling you that he had sex with someone else and asking you, even if it was "just" a joke, if he could have sex with you as a present is an insult. This is not acceptable, under no circumstance. Cut off contact immediately, do not throw a fit, stay cool and ignore him. I find this is the best way to handle situations like this. It shows that he's not worth your attention and that you're not going to waste a single thought on him. It may seem hard for you to do and you also said you loved this man, but his behavior is really indicative of worse things to come. You also seem to be a bit insecure, that will allow him even more to take advantage of you. Get rid of him.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 i really love this man What do you love about him? Your post showed no reason to. I'm curious about what qualities he has outside of this that make you 'love' him, or how you even came to 'love' him. How long have you 'loved' him? When did you realize that you did? You said he knew - how did he find out? What was his reaction?
JayKay Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 He sounds immature and trashy to me. What kind of thing is that to ask a woman? Don't give him sex as a 'pressie', please!
NYCmitch25 Posted December 7, 2005 Posted December 7, 2005 LOL, well since you "like" him go for it, not only that get prego and trap him into "loving you"..
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