Sandyshine Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 I broke up with my BF of 6 months. He took it well, agreed we had some major differences that we could never change. He hadn't dated anyone in a long time. We at least talked nearly every nite. Sex maybe 12 times. I'm busy, long story. He wanted more sex but said now and then was better than never. A friendly goodbye and a comical offer to service me anytime. That was that. I didn't want him to suffer, but a little sadness would of flattered me. He's not a player. I almost want to call and ask if he misses me. What gives?
JayKay Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 Sounds like he's enjoying the 'friends with benefits' situation a lot more than he enjoyed being a full-time boyfriend. Maybe he wanted his freedom and you gave it to him?
ChaseYng2005 Posted December 5, 2005 Posted December 5, 2005 From the male point of view, the sex thing was probably a bigger issue than he let on. I was in the exact same situation as you are in now. We started talking more about what we both wanted sexually and things worked out a lot better. My boyfriend pretty much put down and said "I need sex." I guarantee he misses you, esp if you 2 were as close as you seem to imply. My boyfriend played it off too, but after about a week of NC he came crying back. He wanted me back even more when he found out I was willing to get down and dirty with him whenever he wanted.
LifeRealistic Posted December 8, 2005 Posted December 8, 2005 An x is an x for a reason. Leave it be. Some men dont show emotion- some get pissed instead of crying etc, you know the deal. You said it yourself though, you guys had major differeances; what he couldnt feel or see what you were? Now go find a new guy to stroke that ego
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