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I broke up with my BF of 6 months. He took it well, agreed we had some major differences that we could never change.

 

He hadn't dated anyone in a long time. We at least talked nearly every nite.

Sex maybe 12 times. I'm busy, long story.

 

He wanted more sex but said now and then was better than never.

 

A friendly goodbye and a comical offer to service me anytime. That was that.

 

I didn't want him to suffer, but a little sadness would of flattered me.

He's not a player. I almost want to call and ask if he misses me.

What gives?

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Sounds like he's enjoying the 'friends with benefits' situation a lot more than he enjoyed being a full-time boyfriend.

 

Maybe he wanted his freedom and you gave it to him?

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From the male point of view, the sex thing was probably a bigger issue than he let on. I was in the exact same situation as you are in now. We started talking more about what we both wanted sexually and things worked out a lot better. My boyfriend pretty much put down and said "I need sex."

 

I guarantee he misses you, esp if you 2 were as close as you seem to imply. My boyfriend played it off too, but after about a week of NC he came crying back. He wanted me back even more when he found out I was willing to get down and dirty with him whenever he wanted.

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An x is an x for a reason. Leave it be. Some men dont show emotion- some get pissed instead of crying etc, you know the deal. You said it yourself though, you guys had major differeances; what he couldnt feel or see what you were? Now go find a new guy to stroke that ego :):D

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