loveheart59 Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 I went to this training course in September and met this guy. I thought he was good looking but I never took him seriously for "Boyfriend material" because he seemed like a bit of a playa;) And I wasnt sure because of so many mixed signals. Anyways he did kiss me once but the next time I saw him he fancied this other asian girl in the class so I forgot about him and gave up. He didnt even say goodbye to me on the last day! Got an e-mail off him asking for my number, phoned him and gave him it as a friend. He started calling me but it started getting into other territory, I did explain I didnt fancy him any anymore but he kept trying to persuade me to give him a chance. He invited me to the cinema, to come to his house, to his works christmas party. All this time I was being really lukewarm. I already explained to him I was a virgin and that so I dont think he wanted sex of me. And it was only him calling me not vice versa. I kind of went off him coz we had a conversation about sex and I dont think he understood where I was coming from:( . There was other stuff aswell but too long to tell. I told him I didnt want to keep contact with him because I didnt feel comfortable anymore and this wasn't gona go any further. He kinda said "tough, i'll call you if I want to". And he did: text messages and 6 call in the space of two hours! Even though I rejected some of the calls. He called me again this morning twice b4 I even got up. Called him back, he sounded happy. I then told him I didnt want him to call again. He said "are you sure?!" and I said yes. 5 minutes later I got a text message saying: " If I ever call you again you can call me a dog, I was only messing about with you. I have never fallen for a girl and never will. Honestly, youre not even my type either". Is he just saying that to protect his masculine pride? Or was it the way that I talked to him that made him feel dumb? How the f**k am I supposed to get rid of unwanted admirers without seeming cruel or unfair?
westernxer Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 How the f**k am I supposed to get rid of unwanted admirers without seeming cruel or unfair? Easy. Don't answer his calls, block his e-mail and delete his text messages.
dunno41 Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 Sounds like he is full of himself for one, and the fact your gut was telling you he is a player should be more then enough to make your decision, its usually right. Also you are a virgin and its a little obvious he is thinking with his shlong rather then his brain and smells fresh meat, perhaps he might be taking you for being somewhat of an easy lay by hounding you with calls, text msgs etc. to see how you react, a form of control it looks to me... then when you decide to fluff him he gets defensive and cooks up some bull**** that he never wanted you in the first place, he's an Idiot. It also seems like you dont even like to converse with him or it just fails anyway, save yourself for someone that will treat you right, its tough I know but this tard is all over the map and you seem much too nice to have to deal with this "dog". You made him feel dumb because he is! lol, How do you get rid of him without seeming cruel? don't be intiminated by him and be blunt with him, whatever his response is just say "Tough" im sure he won't cry in a corner or lose sleep over it, also take precautions just in case. Im sure you deserve better.
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