lostinlove1981 Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 This is amazing... this guy is.... One month ago, he called and asked to spend time with me. I said alrite. He said he would go home from work and get ready then call me in an hour. He never called back... 5 days later, he called and apologized profusely saying his experiments didnt go well at work.. he had exams the next few days.. he really hoped i can forgive him.. yada.. ok. so i did. Second time, he asked to see me. I said ok and set a date. This time he did call after his work but did not show up the time he said he would. He said to give him 45min to 1 hr to go home and change then he would come meet me. I waited at the restaurant/bar for 1.5 hr, then called him. He was like.. still at home. Fine, he showed up, at last, 2 hrs later. Before thanksgiving, i called him and asked to see him before i leave town. He didnt call back until 2 weeks later. He got me to go over and was all sweet and stuff. Begged me to stay and made me an amazing breakfast. this Thursday. I called him and he didnt pick up. I wanted to take him out to lunch on saturday and asked him to reply to me asap. He didnt. so I called him again last nite (friday). He picked up (miracle!). He said he is gonna be busy this weekend with a lot of stuff going on, which i understand (after all, he goes to school full-time and he does research full-time). So.. fine. I didnt nag. I just said i wanted to see him and that i missed him. He said he had time last nite and we could hang out. He said to give him 45min - 1 hr to get ready/straighten up his place, then he would call me so i can go over to see him. I waited and waited (thinking fine i will give him 2 hours, due to the last experience). Finally after 3 hrs, i got furious. I called him. He didnt pick up. He didnt call back. I waited another half hour and called again. He didnt pick up. I left a very polite message (even tho i was totally pissed off) saying..just wondering what happened.. really wanted to see [him].. had a tough week.. seeing [him] would make me feel better.. but guess [he's] busy.. have a good nite and later... one day later, still not heard from him.. maybe days/weeks later he will call to apologize again.. dear GOD, I really dont understand. where is the common curtesy? respect? do ppl just not call back or not show up w/o saying anything? I am not asking much. I am not demanding things since we are not at that point yet. We have very good interaction when we spend time together. We connect well. He is very sweet and cutesy when we are together. I feel that he does like me and enjoys to be with me.. I have been very patient and forgiving, because i do like other aspects of him.. he makes me happy.. other than this "waiting and not showing up" crap. what the heck?
curiousnycgirl Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 Were these your first dates or are you two in a relationship? My answer would be very different depending on your answer.
Author lostinlove1981 Posted December 4, 2005 Author Posted December 4, 2005 Were these your first dates or are you two in a relationship? My answer would be very different depending on your answer. first dates... he asked me out. took him awhile to call me.. but he did. at first i thought he came on a little strong. but as time goes.. i like him more and more.. since we do share similar goals in life.. we are both doing similar things like getting 2nd degrees (both with 1st degrees in biochem).... we like similar things.. and he treats me very well when we are together..like he really cherishes the times he spent with me.. there is no awkwardness with this new person.. can feel the strong mutual attraction when together.. sigh.. he's 29 and i'm 26.
Apathygrip Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 "begged me to stay....made me an amazing breakfast".... LOL! Thats gold. I gots to tell you though guys just work like that(me being one) I'll get a girls number after spending a day with them and call them maybe a week later.you dont need to beat yourself up, but dont be so forthcoming either....that just kills it for me.when girls start getting attatched and the guy(me) is not 100% interested he starts acting like kyour homie here.If was truly sprung he would be hittin you up for days.......i don't know, jus ramblin...
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