Girlfriend WANTS me to cheat. Confused.

[cendant]

Hello,

 

I have found myself in an odd situation. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years now, and are very committed to each other. We have always been faithful to each other.

 

Recently, she has been mentioning repeatedly that she wants to have a threesome. I thought maybe she was trying to tell me that she is bisexual, and wanted to experiment with another women.

 

Instead, she wants to see me have sex with another woman - while she watches. I don't think sleeping with another woman is right, with or without my girlfriend's consent and presence. I have explained this to her. She insists that she wants me to do this, and that seeing me receive pleasure from someone else will somehow make her feel better. She has exhibited minor lesbian tendencies in the past, but I didn't think much of it.

 

I find this whole situation very strange, has anyone else had their girlfriend make this unusual request?

 

Any advice would be helpful, thanks.

 

-Tom

[agnf666]

This situation is very wierd... I don't think I would do it though... Something tells me that there is no good to come from that at all... Just tell her that you are committed to her and only her... You don't want to sleep with any other girl but her... Maybe she will get the point...

[hotrod12345]

You need to brainstorm a few other idea's to spice up your sex life with her. Try messed up positions. they dont have to be intimate they can just be fun and even make you laugh. If I were you I would focus on her satisfaction every single sexual encounter. dont worry about yourself just her. get her to orgasm more then once if you can. Encourage her when she does things you like. I heard somewhere that woman who fantasize of 3 somes feel insecure bout their abilitys to perform. so no matter what she does if its good tell her how much you love/like it and make her feel wonderful. Im no pro but thats what I would do in your situation.