lilmoma1973 Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 Hey all i have a ? to ask about what my h said in the car last weekend to my ss ... We was riding down the road coming back from all the Thanksgiving visiting and ss is really depressed because his g/f will not be able to spend Christmas with him this yr because their family is going out of town for the holidays to Illinois to visit family and they will be gone from December 21-31 they are only out till January 3 and go back on the 4th,he is afraid he won't be able to see her much and he is upset!! Dad suggested to ss that we would get her something special before she left to let her know that he was committed to her and noone else ..They dated one time before and this is the second time but the first time she broke his heart and he is so afraid of losing her !! He is in wrestling and goes to meet all the time and she is a cheerleading always doing competetion too ,so their time is limited sometimes !! He has to see her alot now that they are back dating so Dad suggested that ss get her a promise ring.. i think it would be ok but the parents won't know nothing it will be a big surprize should i say something or not !! Do you think they will be mad if we do this ? He just wants her to know he is serious and isn't going anywhere... They both are very popular and is captain of football and she is captain of cheerleading team and she wants to cheer for NC State .. SS wants to play pro football or baseball they are very academic and she is a beautiful girl and he is nice looking guy so they can have anyone they want but they choose each other people broke them up before and caused conflict and i think he wants some kind of reassurance she isn't going anywhere since she broke his heart before!!! What do you all think about the Promise ring
JadeStar Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 I think if its something he would like to do thats fine, nothing wrong with it. As a matter of fact I got a promise ring at the same age as your ss. Well, I think I had just turned 16, but close enough. Ask him if he has anything special in mind he would like to get her. Let it be his desicion as long as its something within a reasonable price range. Jade
Author lilmoma1973 Posted December 3, 2005 Author Posted December 3, 2005 I think if its something he would like to do thats fine, nothing wrong with it. As a matter of fact I got a promise ring at the same age as your ss. Well, I think I had just turned 16, but close enough. Ask him if he has anything special in mind he would like to get her. Let it be his desicion as long as its something within a reasonable price range. Jade We went to the mall last night and after we ate we walked over the jewlery store just to look and found one that was really simple but the price i don't really know about .. It was beautiful and it was simple a white gold dainty ring and had a diamond in the middle and the setting for the diamond had the shape of a heart and was really pretty and was on sale and the diamond in it wasn't tiny either and it was 149.00 for this ring .. I liked the ring but not the price .. My ss hates jewelery and we brought a sales paper home with it on it and showed it to him and he said he hated jewelery and and wanted us to help him ... He liked it but im not so sure i want to put that into !! H was fine with it and i was surprized cause he usually thinks jewelery is a waste of money as well as flowers !! I just don't want us to buy this for her and her parents get mad because they think he is being too serious cause a promise ring is something big and i think he would like to marry and be with this girl for the rest of his life !! He is in love and so is she .. They are so cute together ..
NYCmitch25 Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 Promise rings are the best invention of the Jewelry industry... I'll leave it at that..
Author lilmoma1973 Posted December 5, 2005 Author Posted December 5, 2005 Thanks for all the replies and i talked with g/f mom and asked her about the promise ring and she hesitated and said as long as it didn't look like an engagement ring it was fine!! I told her it would be simple something with a heart on it nothing that looked like an engagement ring ss just wants to give her something nice since leaving to go out of town and he can't spend time with her then she was ok.. She said that would be fine.. I'm glad i called her don't think she would have liked it us not asking by the way she acted.. I'm not saying it means they getting married just that he wanted to know how much he cared for her that's all !! Nothing more
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