fleur1 Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 it is me again i talk to my boyfriend last time all i can get is he decided to choose his work and his fun over me and he doesn't even want to call me what can i do ? i still love him and please advice me he is driving me crazy he doesn't care at all he is being a big a**h*** my question is how can u tell someone u need space to think and then u want to go o date with other people ? tht does not make any sense for me i'm lost i need to get trough this please send me ur advices i need to talk to people to relieve my pain
Enygmatic Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 It's kinda sad but I don't think he is worth your suffering. He already told you that he chose his work and fun over you. Why would you care about someone that doesnt care about you?. I know there must be feelings involved to which is not easy to forget but listen: If he were the right guy then he wouldn't make you feel like that. Just try to get over it,don't isolate, you need to stick around, have some fun with your friends, meet new people and realize that he is not what you really need. I almost forgot, If you start going out, just have fun, do not get into a rebound relationships(it's even worse).
Author fleur1 Posted December 3, 2005 Author Posted December 3, 2005 u think i should forget him ? i'm so confused i just try to believe there is some hope for us i don't really know how i will handle this
Author fleur1 Posted December 3, 2005 Author Posted December 3, 2005 and also he said he still have feelings for me what should i believe ?
Devildog Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 I'm not trying to be blunt, but this will be blunt. Sorry He isn't into you. He has stated that he prioritizes you below work and having fun, but also tells you that dating other women doesn't fall behind work and having fun. It doesn't mean you have done anything wrong. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. LDRs are very difficult. Perhaps he felt he needed to be with someone closer to him geographically, someone he could see more consistently and without prior arrangements being made. Very few LDR work out. IMHO, If we were meant to be with a person, fate, destiny, or God would have put us into close physical proximity with that person. I don't think we are meant to find someone that we have to move in order to maintain or pursue a relationship.
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