loki7 Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 Overheard a conversation on the phone (don't ask me) between wife and "p.i.t.a. girlfriend". It was about the PITA telling me that my wife wanted a pre-paid phone for Christmas. I told her in that case, I can just put her on my plan and she can share my minutes (besides, I don't think a phone is a great Christmas present). She (PITA) talks to my wife, tells her the only reason I want to put her on my plan is to keep track of who she calls. And a real surpirse, my wife agrees with her!! She told PITA she has a real surprise for me; she'll buy a pre paid phone and tell me, "that's allright, just buy me some minutes". I didn't tell her I heard her, I just bought a cheap pre paid phone and gave it to her (much to her surprise). Ive had more than enough of this meddling pig in my marriage. I'm going to give my wife an ultimatum for a present; choose who's your husband, me or PITA!!! Am I right or what?!!
goingforgold Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 hmmm....if you're that sick of it and you feel that strongly about it affecting your relationship with your wife but ultimatums usually dont work, never did with me when my ex sprung it on me(different situation) hence thats why he is my ex:D
Sami_D Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 I didn't read your other thread, but I'm just thinking... Maybe your W and her friend have a point... doesn't everyone have a right to make phonecalls without someone else listening in..?
Tiny Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 I didn't read your other thread, but I'm just thinking... Maybe your W and her friend have a point... doesn't everyone have a right to make phonecalls without someone else listening in..? Just a second here, I hardly think her husband is just "someone", and he wouldn't exactly be listening in would he? If you put your trust in someone too much, your just being fool to yourself, If his wife hasn't anything to hide why does she need to "hide" the calls she makes? I think you've got a valid point Loki, dont let this PITA "friend" of hers help to destroy your marriage, try and get your wife away from her influence. Good luck matey
Sami_D Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 Just a second here, I hardly think her husband is just "someone", and he wouldn't exactly be listening in would he? Well he IS listening in, from what I read in the OP. It doesn't matter that he's her H ~ everyone deserves their privacy. But as I say, I didn't read the other thread, so I don't know exactly what it is that he's mistrusting her about.
Tiny Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 Well he IS listening in, from what I read in the OP. Yeah well overhearing one phone call, just means he's already very suspicious with good reason, what I meant was, where's the problem, him seeing what calls she makes? he wouldn't actually be listening in, and if she's nothing to hide, what's the problem? You don't have to be paranoid, to trust your gut feelings, there there to protect you, I wish i'd stuck with mine in months gone by, instead of living in denial, coz sooner or later the truth comes out anyway, as it did with me, then you feel even more of a fool than if you'd done something more positive about them in the first place. We all have to put our trust in our partners, but at the same time not be blind to what our intincts tell us.
Author loki7 Posted December 3, 2005 Author Posted December 3, 2005 Thanks, Tiny. It's not that I didn't trust my wife in the first place, it's her change in her attitude and the enormous amount of time she spends w/PITA that arouse my suspicions (and, I was Right).
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