dandyman Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 Thought I would try and get advice after 1 broken marriage and one broken relationship all at only 29 I met my most recent girlfriend on holiday and after seeing each other for 4 months via a long distance relationship we decided to go on holiday together . we came back and I stayed with her for a few more days then I left for a weeks work. the other night I rang her and she said I was being to pushy the problem I had was I was not caring enough in my marriage and have become too caring in the last relationship with constant texting and phonecalls she is a career women with a good job and wont stop until she gets what she wants and from a very rich family the trouble is I want her back my parents and mates think its just because of the money but I have realized I was not in love with my first wife and I realize what love is with this girl we have had laughs and good times and she as told me she loves me and that I better love her in which I say I do, I just cant understand her I just want her back she rang me today saying that its finished but i feel i can win her back any help or advise would be grateful
txwildorchid Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 Cool your jets! Back off...it will be up to her to change her mind. All you can do is take some time for yourself and go on without her. If she happens to change her mind then deal with that when the time comes but don't sit around waiting for her to change it. If you keep trying to force the issue then she will end up just hating you altogether.
Author dandyman Posted December 2, 2005 Author Posted December 2, 2005 too late just sent a text message again telling her i love her etc
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