Leilao1 Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 My MM and me had approximately 2 years long affair. I am also married and somehow we hit it off and had a great time. This is more for "coping" board but I wanted to hear it from you because you guys are in unique situation. In April this year his wife found out, he moved out but it seams that now they are working on getting back together. However she made it hell for both. He never talked to me after my last visit late June without screaming. I had to digg out the information that she is trying to get him back and he became very rude and told me not to contact him. The situation is even worse because they have a little girl and she is making it hard for him or at least that is what he said. I stopped contacting him. The problem is that she is still reading my old e-mails sent to him months ago(I have a tracer so I know for sure) times and times again and lately started to call from "no ID" phone number. She hangs up when I answer. She did several other things that I can't post - these were similar to stalking. I want to move on but how? I tried to ignore, did not work. I said I would press charges, did not work. I need her to leave me alone. Any advice would be appreciated.
slubberdegullion Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 I said I would press charges, did not work. Saying you'll do one thing and then not following through is precisely what separates effective communicators from the rest of us unwashed masses. It's the fundamental in raising kids, especially. So don't say anything more. Take action. File a complaint with the police with all the details, and make sure you have every allegation supported by documentation. Then let them deal with it.
Author Leilao1 Posted December 2, 2005 Author Posted December 2, 2005 Very well said. I understand she is hurt, but so am I. I will do NC and at this point if it happens once again I will do like you said. Thank you.
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