justsomeguy Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 If you were me right now, you were a guy in college and you just noticed a girl behind you in class that you were interested in, if you wanted to do something to pursue her, what would you do? By the way... We haven't talked much, mostly because she sits behind me. If I change my seet now it will seem odd since everybody has sat in the same spot for two months now. That aside, what would YOU do? Looking for answers from people that think they can get to know a girl in a relatively short amount of time once they notice her.
westernxer Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Just talk to her about some bullshiit subject like classwork or a recent test. Then monitor her response and go from there.
Author justsomeguy Posted December 1, 2005 Author Posted December 1, 2005 You think I should direct any attention to people around her and me as I talk to her? Or just her? If I turn all the way around and keep talking to just her she will really notice the sudden interest in her, even on random subjects, I want her to notice I guess.
johan Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 If westerxer's (how is that pronounced?) advice doesn't work, then I recommend taking mime lessons. Then one day dress like a mime, white makeup and everything. In front of the entire class mime your heart beating out of your chest and mime giving her flowers. That should pretty much do it for you.
Author justsomeguy Posted December 1, 2005 Author Posted December 1, 2005 Yeah, she can't miss that! But really girls have told me I am the funniest guy they know. The other problem is that on Tuesday and Thursdays we use another room and she is on the other side. It is small room though. I'd pretty much have to walk around and ask the assistant for help. That class is tought by an assistant though and people are crazy on those days so I can do whatever I want. I could say something to her on the way out. Uh, so much stupid effort to talk to somebody that isn't next to you in class.
Apathygrip Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 ya its easy..."so howd you do on the last test?".....You shouldn't need help from there, once class is over make like a short conversation so that next time it isn't out of the blue, wait till you feel comfortable then be like "what are you doing this weekend" then you find out she has a BF and then on to the next...eheh...I've done this too much/:p
Author justsomeguy Posted December 1, 2005 Author Posted December 1, 2005 Actually she should be single since her online profile says so, and because she is a freshman that just got here. I'm a senior so I'm a little more mature than most of the freshman guys too.
Author justsomeguy Posted December 2, 2005 Author Posted December 2, 2005 If I talk to her for a few days, on the last day of class soon, what would be best to do if I want to see her again?
runner Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 see, now you're over-analysing. just do it, man.
katiebour Posted December 2, 2005 Posted December 2, 2005 One or all of the following would have gotten my attention in college: Come to class a bit early and chat with her- tell jokes, smile a lot and look her in the eyes. Eye contact while smiling, with an occasional glance to the lips, as if you'd like to kiss her, definitely indicates interest. A few little chats, ask her out to coffee/study. Pass her a note with something goofy written on it to make her smile. Tuck a candy inside it and say "sweets for the sweet" or something similar. Chat her up after class, offer to walk her to her next class. Ask her about her holiday plans, what she's doing, if she's getting together with her family, etc. Tell her about your family a bit if she's interested. Tell her a funny holiday anecdote. Ask her about her major, plans for college, interests, and so on. Talk is key.
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