BxTinaQNy05 Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Well Im about to do something I swore that I wouldnt which is post my life on a forum BUT today is a different day. Here goes I will try and make it simple and as short as possiable. I had a boyfriend for about 3 yrs and I attended my friends wedding( my BF did NOT attend w/ me) and so I befriended my friends NEW brother in law he was sweet, kind and everything that my boyfriend wasent so we QUICKLY got into a fast relationship I was still with my boyfriend @ the time but I knew I had to make a choice and things were not working out with my BF of 3 yrs so I gave it a shot and everything was love we shared every moment together he invited me to stay with him during the nights ( said he was lonely w/o me there) said I love You and even introduced me to his daughter and family after only two months. The feeling was def. mutal i had Love for him it wasent like ohh im IN LOVE with you but I LOVED EVERY MIN EVERY DAY with him he would pick me up everyday from work just to see me and bring me home. Things were good and so to get on with it. after about 2 1/2 months we had a few little quams nothing extreme and then there it was that day he ( my ex) called me just to say hi and my friend (coworker) had told my bf then E. that she thought I was still seeing my ex and of course he belived it i think NOT SURE b/c I was spending more time @ home. The reason for the switch was I wanted to spend more time with my family as we found out my brother was being sent to iraq. So that day a few months ago he picked me up for the last time and brought up this thing about me spending time with my ex NOT TRUE I was angry that my friend betrayed me and I was angry that he picked me up with this nonsence that wasent true. We left out as him asking me if i Loved him as responded yes he said he didnt want to do anything he was going to regret and from there it was a blur I dont remember him breaking up with me apparently he did. Now Im looking for some answers he had a gambiling problem b4 me and after we broke up he started with it again. What I want to know is I want to be friends with him and spend time and actually I think alot of it might have to do with me wanting to be intimate again with him without a doubt but he doesnt call me he waits for my call and its like blah blah blah. I keep trying to meet up with him and say like her what are you doing this week but he doesnt seem to be reponding. I asked him if I was wasting my time by calling him and I think he got a little upset about me saying that i mean sh-- do you want me calling you or not. Im always angry when i get off gthe phone with him b/c im looking for him to say something that I want to hear its not working what can i say to him ( being mature about it) and without aggravating him to let him know I want to see. I DONT JUST WANT TO TALK I AM DIEING TO SEE HIM. WHAT CAN I SAY TO HIM IN OUR NEXT CONVERSATION. THE OTHER NIGHT HE SAID TO ME YOU SOUND LIKE I BROKE YOUR HEART, I SAID YES. HIS REPSONCE WAS SOMETHING LIKE OHH THINGS HAPPEN. ISINT TRUE THAT IF HE DIDNT WANT TO HEAR FROM ME HE WOULDNT PICK UP THE PHONE? THEN WHY DOESNT HE CALL ME? I THINK ABOUT HIM DAY AND NIGHT ....... I MAKE MYSELF SICK TO MY STOMACH THINKING ABOUT IT. SO SORRY ABOUT THIS LONG STORY I DONT EVEN THINK I GOT TO THE POINT.
Outcast Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Don't be friends. It's over and he's not a good deal if he's a gambler. It's time to start No Contact and move on.
slubberdegullion Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Outcast has it right on. The drama that comes with this dude will wear you out before your time.
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