Lana Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 I'm not the jealous type & as I trust my boyfriend & vice versa we allow each other necessary freedom. Some of my friends are convinced that's he's taking advantage of this & that guys "in relationships don't act this way." Just wondering if this is normal behaviour to u guys? He goes on guys-only trips abroad for around 3 days every month where they go out to clubs, drinking etc. He also only tells me he's going so I don't have any say in the matter.. To be honest I think it's a bit inconsiderate but we're both still at university so I figure if he doesn't have the freedom to do this now, when will he? Also I believe that if someone wants to cheat they can do it anywhere, anytime so allowing them freedom is a better option.. Any thoughts on this would be great, thanks alot
Enygmatic Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 I think experience has nothing to do in a relationship if you really love someone. Im just 20 and Ive been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we are already thinking about marriage and stuff like that. Maybe we are just thiking too much ahead but the point is that i dont really care about my freedom. I haven't had a lot of experience nor had hundreds of girls like all men want but that is not a reason to freak out and think that you are gonna lose your freedom. I mean, after all if you really love someone then there shouldnt be the need of getting more experience. From my point of view I think that if you look for something outside the relationship it means that you are not happy with what you already have. It has to be either black or white, no gray colors allowed. If he loves you then he should commit otherwise something is wrong...unless it's an open relationship
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