judy Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 It will be a Christmas part soon. Since my ex, the woman he cheated on and married within 3 months we broke, will all attend the party. And she is pregnant now. I feel hard to deal with it. I am very much over him now, and seldom their business will bother me any more. However still feel so weird or hard to deal with to be in the same room celebrating Christmas with them. Any good idea? I have one kid with the guy. And I don't like him because he has been dishonest, unloyal and not responsible during his courtship with this woman and broke me into different pieces.
SMHappyface Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 From where I see it, you have a couple of options - you can blow off the party or you can show up. If you show up, you must look fabulous. And totally blow HIM off when you see him. Nothing will rattle his chain more than a gorgeous woman who wants nothing to do with him. Cheaters I've found have a bit of a control problem and seeing their ex look great and happy irritates them. I'm sorry you have a kid with him, that must be hard - and another one on the way with the other girl? Dang, he can't keep his pecker in his pants! What a dick.
westernxer Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Get totally smashed. Then smash a wine glass over his head.
Author judy Posted November 30, 2005 Author Posted November 30, 2005 Beside mine kid, and the one they are expecting, he had another one with another woman. so He has 3 kids from 3 women. LOL I am going to take my kid to the party and just don't feel that easy to have them around with their happy family gestures. while I am a single mom with my kid.
slubberdegullion Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Get totally smashed. Then smash a wine glass over his head. Brilliant! Or *accidentally on purpose* spill a full glass of red wine or a cup of hot coffee in his lap. Maybe subsitute a couple squares of that chocolate Ex-Lax for his after-dinner sweet.
Painwraith Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 hmm do you want to put you and your child in that situation? I would think long and hard... Personally I wouldnt go. the pain I would go through that my child would pick up on wouldnt be worth it
Just Visiting Posted November 30, 2005 Posted November 30, 2005 Get totally smashed. Then smash a wine glass over his head. LMAO
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