Ruff Ryder Posted November 29, 2005 Posted November 29, 2005 Hey all... I have had a bad day. Why is it that we do stupid things to try to get our ex back? I know i have and the chance is that i have lost her forever now. The pain becomes unbearible and the day turns to night. I do really love her and she says she feels the same but we cant be together now for various reasons. She is involved with someone else, and for some reason that doesnt tear me apart inside as long as she is happy. I wish every day that she would be happy with me and who knows maybe one day she will be. Im not sure why this has all come around now just as life started comming together we started talking again and then it just all blew up. Maybe it was to soon maybe i was a support system for when she was down. (she is a depressive). But still i feel the pain and all i can come up with is PAIN IS LOVE.... I know that im in controll of how i feel and must master my thoughts and everything will be fine. Just need to post to see if anyone can relate. Have a good one. Ruff
archbean Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 "But still i feel the pain and all i can come up with is PAIN IS LOVE...." maybe so, but perhaps "love is pain" would be more correct.... simply because not all pain is necessarily love.... although now that i think about that, as long as you're talking about emotional pain, it really is all because of love. nothing would hurt so much, if at all, if you didn't love, because their opinions and what they do and say, and what happens in their life wouldn't be important to you. you could have love without pain, but it seems to me it would be missing a dimension of sorts... good luck to you
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