scared2Balone Posted November 29, 2005 Posted November 29, 2005 Ok I have read a lot of these posts and never really replied because my situation is definitely a little out there. I was with a man for six months and found out I was six weeks pregnant three weeks ago. I confided in my friend who absolutely hated my ex and all I ever heard was what a loser he is and how I should just dump him and raise this child on my own. So, I did what I shouldn't have and dumped him three weeks ago and never told him about being pregnant until I realized what an idiot I was, so I told him three days after we split up. When we broke up I told him I had someone else because I knew that would be the only way he would really leave. I realize this was a huge mistake and have no way to really contact him, I found out two days ago that he is staying with this girl he used to hate. This killed me, I guess I brought this all out on myself but when I found out I was pregnant the only thing I could think of was how all these other guys did there girlfriends and I didn't want that to be me so I thought if I would end it then maybe it would be easier. I have tried to contact him by having my friend call this girls phone but he will only call back I am assuming when that girl is nowhere around. I don't know what to do, I don't know if he is just using this girl as somewhere to stay as he really has nowhere else to go and if he knew I wanted him back if he would talk to me since I haven't told him I wanted him back just that I am pregnant. I don't know what to do I am at a loss.
AtarisKid Posted November 29, 2005 Posted November 29, 2005 your in a really tough spot.....raising a kid on your is really tough, but it can be done, i know alot of people that have, but it sounds like to me like baby daddy wouldnt be a very reliable father figure, not a having a place of his own and stuff....but having a kid is a really big reality check, its going to change who you are completely...if i were you i would focus on preparations for your baby, if he wants anything to do with the baby, he'l come around... focus on you for now...
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