hotrod12345 Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 I have known my current girlfriend of almost a year for over 2 and ahalf years. In highschool we both had major crushes on each other but were afraid of rejection from one another so nothing ever really happend. I went away to community college and she was in her last year of highschool when i asked her out. We have been together for 11 months and we have fallen in love. Im going to transfer to her college which is 5 hours away from home this spring semester and live in the dorms. Now next fall we really want to get an appartment to live in together. She would be a sophmore in college turning 19 and i would be considered a Junior turning 21. We are both crazy about each other, have talked about the timeline of our lives such as when we think is the right time for us to have kids and when is a good time to be married and all that. Our families love each other and I just couldnt be any happier. ANYWAYS do you think that moving in with each other at that young of an age is either good or bad? I would really appreciate anyones advice who have been in a similiar situation. I really want things to be perfect with her and I know she wants the same. So ya any advice or experience would be appreciated!!! thanks
LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Slow down chief ...... there is much in life for you to see:)
filarena Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 I think length of courtship is overrated. Well, let me qualify that. A lot of couples move too fast, and this has created the conventional wisdom that you should always wait. Too many people move fast who shouldn't, but sometimes you know. My mother tells me she knew she was going to marry my father after their first date. They were both in their late 20s though, and had significantly more experience, both with life and relationships. I think sometimes you do just know, but I also think age plays a strong role. In the end, no one else can tell you if it's real. You have to decide that for yourself. It's not implausible, in my mind, that it is. But a lot of people 19-21 think so, and very few of them are right... :shrug:
mini696 Posted November 29, 2005 Posted November 29, 2005 There is only one way to find out... So go for it.
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