joel Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 let me now this -there this girl in my class-seens been in several of my classess right -very quiet, loner , hardly see her talking with anyone-talked to her a couple of x's-shes quiet but responsive right. seems shes the kind thats very gung ho about school and not very into making freinds. kind of liked this girl asked her out-since shes a loner type similar to me-also quiet. well she said NO-maybe next time right- if u guys read my prior posts u would now, what i am talking about. i was so surprised this girl would make a big deal about a guy askin her out-since i thought she would be the down to earth, quiet, nice type -thats what i saw, but NO hey she had to tell everyone about it-and made me look like a fool-by tellin everyone-i got funny looks and smiles from every on campus. how does a loner , quiet, very by herself type of girl ever have 8freinds. i find her on freindster and she has 8 freinds all from HS-most of em seem to be the pary type very unlike her type. , how does a girl who so quiet-never ot hardly talk to ppl in college be able to have 8 freinds in HS? i'm more talktive than her and i don't have 8 freinds-lol. like 1 or 2 It also said she was in a relationship-do u think shes really in a relationship ,or just mark it as in a relatiionship-to avoid guys e mailing her and gaining unwanted male attention and is really single. she has no guy pics of her and her guy, and has 2 guy freinds and they are marked in as single-one east indian guy and the other chinese-
Apathygrip Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 You havn't attained the gift of truly knowing her. You are basing kyour jugment on her personality all by what YOU have seen. Almost no one can enter a room and truly be themselves without friends around or somebody you know to feel comfortable with. You have met the her that she chooses to portray to people she doesnt know.
SuperMonk Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Don't see women as fragile weak beings. This will solve your problems.
shadow freak 2020 Posted December 3, 2005 Posted December 3, 2005 heh, guess what, I'm the quiet loner type, and I have crap loads of friends >.<. I may not be as quiet as the girl your talking about, but I gennerally like my alone time, and I'm usually quiet in large social gatherings. Some people are just popular for no real reason at all, and we may never know why >.<
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