LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 about leaving a message that says " Hi, this is LN just to let you know I've decided I'm going to chase you untill you decide you are going to be with me or tell me to leave you alone the decision is yours, by the way I will be sending flowers thursday..Talk to you soon "
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Why not just tell her you're a stalker, too.
Outcast Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Once upon a time that might have been considered romantic. In this day and age, you'll have the cops at your doorstep. Wise up, dude!!
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 I prefer to be more subtle........ outcast are you female ? I want female feedback on this .................. a restraining order would be a clear message that she is not interested and much more pleasurable than mixed signals
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 You don't need female feedback. You need a reality check. Mixed signals mean no. Only a yes means yes.
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 Mixed signals is rarely a No , in my experience anyway. read the boards its full of why dont he call me anymore after I ignored his calls and blew off half the dates, I really liked him why doesnt he call anymore I get a reality check daily, .................. I think you would be hard pressed to find a female that would not like this if she liked the guy, although it is a slightly insane and very dicey move. I think stalking would be more like I am not going to take the answer no reguardless, I would never continue beyond a no. I may be wrong as I can't remember being stalked lately
melissa85 Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Westnexer, you are so funny. Ur comments are hilarious.
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Mixed signals is rarely a No , in my experience anyway. read the boards its full of why dont he call me anymore after I ignored his calls and blew off half the dates, I really liked him why doesnt he call anymore Those aren't mixed signals. Those people got dumped, or else they're getting played, the way you're getting played by this girl. Show her you've got game by being a little mysterious. That note shows you're desperate, with a lack of self-confidence.
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 Yes West they got dumped for sending mixed signals, they were not the dumpee although they did initiate it with the behavoir Not always the case Art ...supported by repeated posts of how mixed signals got someone dumped and any games would stop with a cat like swiftness as it forces them to make a decision of yes lets keep going or you need to go away nutball and really the intention is to stop when the answer is no, not to continue in a cable guy like fashion ....god I love that movie ever see it
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Yes West they got dumped for sending mixed signals, they were not the dumpee although they did initiate it with the behavoir Don't try to distract us from your situation. Isn't going to work. You're no exception to the fool by sending that note. Excuse me, I meant rule.
Outcast Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 UGH. Don't tell me you're one more of those posters who asks questions only to ignore the answers. OK go ahead. Do it. See if they'll let you use the 'net in jail.
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 UGH. Don't tell me you're one more of those posters who asks questions only to ignore the answers. Those are my favorite, the ones who only see what they want to believe. Usually it's the younger posters who act this way. So far, two guys and one girl say you're doing the wrong thing.
Art_Critic Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 why wouldn't you want someone that wants you ? If she wanted you you would know
whichwayisup Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Back off completely for a month. No contact. Then see what happens...
luvtoto Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 about leaving a message that says " Hi, this is LN just to let you know I've decided I'm going to chase you untill you decide you are going to be with me or tell me to leave you alone the decision is yours, by the way I will be sending flowers thursday..Talk to you soon " Please do not pursue this woman in such a relentless way.
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 It was a completely hypothetical question, about what you might think about it, If I ask a question, then obviously I am asking for your advice, whether I choose to accept it or not is my choice alone, I am a man and will take all responsibility for my words and actions. I'm not bashing anyone here, so please keep the insults to a minimum I won't engage in any flame wars Peace out
westernxer Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 It was a completely hypothetical question, about what you might think about it, If I ask a question, then obviously I am asking for your advice, whether I choose to accept it or not is my choice alone, I am a man and will take all responsibility for my words and actions. I'm not bashing anyone here, so please keep the insults to a minimum I won't engage in any flame wars Peace out No one's flaming you. We're just flaming the idiocy of what you're about to do. Why sugarcoat it?
country gal Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 about leaving a message that says " Hi, this is LN just to let you know I've decided I'm going to chase you untill you decide you are going to be with me or tell me to leave you alone the decision is yours, by the way I will be sending flowers thursday..Talk to you soon " I'd run for the hills if I received this message. You asked for the truth. Try just being yourself (unless you truly are a stalker then dont). I dont know where you are at with this relationship, if anywhere, but if she has shown you interest, just leave a message that is more along the lines of "Hey, I was just thinking about you, give me a call when you get a chance." Much more real and honest - and most importantly, not scary. On the other hand, if she has turned you down, leave it lie my friend. She aint interested.
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 " I'd run for the hills if I received this message. You asked for the truth. " Yes I did ask for the truth, that's all I ever asked for. " We're just flaming the idiocy of what you're about to do. Why sugarcoat it? " I may or may not have done it, I won't NOW " Please do not pursue this woman in such a relentless way " That's what I was looking for " Back off completely for a month. No contact. Then see what happens..." Good advice
kitkat826 Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 That type of message would not change my mind one way or another. If I really like you, I would feel tickled. If I didn't, I would just think you are weird.
konfuzd Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Girl's opinion: Send the flowers without the creepiness. "Thinking of you" -LN
Art_Critic Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 Girl's opinion: Send the flowers without the creepiness. "Thinking of you" -LN If you think that there is at least a 50/50 chance I would agreed with Konfuzed.. No creepy stalker talk.. Just flowers and a very very short romantic line.
Author LN8840K Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 Yes We're friends, but even since the begining it's like 2 steps forward 3 steps back ...everything will be going cool and progressing then bamn some kind of drama happens and its back to start..... after 3 set backs I'm ready to say make up your damn mind..... I met a girl last night and have a date with her weds, but I like this girl and so that kind of scares me because I dont wanna give up on her, at the same time I dont have the energy to keep playing games and need to at least go into this date with an open mind and see what happens
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