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My H had an A w/ a co-worker almost 3 years ago during our seperation. Even though the M was ending (he filed for a D) we still continued to talk about working it out as he felt he moved to fast w/ the filing. Well, I decided to let him go and get on w/ my life even though it was hard and I still loved him but I was tired of it all, I knew I must get on w/ my life. It was hard to get through the day but w/ the help of God, family, friends, and IC each day that passed got a little easier. Now, almost 3 years later I have healed and the A seems like it was just a bad dream. I try not to think of the A and that helps. I no longer feel like the A consumes my thoughts and feeling sick about it. I have finally put the A behind me and have never felt better. I wish it would of never happened, and I will never forget the A but I'm glad that I no longer feel the way I did b4.

 

Three years is a long time to get over an A, but I did it, and I just hope and pray that those of you are feeling the pain of a WS can find the strength to get through it. Everyone is different and each of us will get through it at different times.

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Hi Mopar-good to see you back here. We've been posting a bit with the same sentiment today. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t75866/ Glad to hear that you're doing well!

 

 

Thanks JS! I read part of the url you gave me and it does make a lot of sense. Interesting thread, thanks for telling me about it.

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