celtic05 Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 hi i met this girl who i am going out with but i only meet her once a week like on a friday are saturday because we tryed to meet up more often but i cant seem to say anything to her unless i am drunk thats why its only once a week.I really do want to meet her more but cant find it in me to do ring her are ask her to come out are come over.if anyone has any advice plz feel free to help.tnx in advance:(
slubberdegullion Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Lose the booze. You'll come off as an ass and as someone who can't control themselves. Just put the fear aside and do it. What's the worst that can happen? Is she gonna turn into a Tyrannasaurus Rex or something? Life rewards action, so make it happen.
JS17 Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 I agree with slubber. Loose the booze. Are you just shy when you first meet someone? Maybe you just need some time to open up. Think about activities that don't require a lot of talking for the first few dates like a movie or concert until you feel more comfortable and the conversation can flow more naturally.
Author celtic05 Posted November 27, 2005 Author Posted November 27, 2005 thx for some help but the problem is i am like this with any girl that i meet and have always been this way and i am now 19 sad but true.
JS17 Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 19 is still very young. Start learning to be comfortable around girls in the context outside of a relationship...ie just friends. Would you consider non-drinking activities that don't require a lot of talking like a movie until you become comfortable? Some girls don't mind shyness and will take the talking reins until the guy is more comfortable. Just ask her questions about herself and let her do most of the talking and answer whatever questions she has for you.
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