whereismylifegoing Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 well me and my ex have been broken up for almost six months now and i finally put my foot down to stop talking to her. i didn't talk to her for about a week and a half, by ignoring her calls and other things. i know that seems weird, but we have talked literally twice a week. after we went our seperate ways and hooked up with random people, she finally admitted that she wanted to try again. but she is scared about going into the same relationship. i don't know what to tell her. but i don't want to make a decision for her either! she needs to do this on her own then we can try to rebuild what we had. i wonder sometimes if she is still in love with me? do you think i should continue not talking to her? also one of the guys she hooked up with, they hung out a few times. should i be worried? help i'm losing my hair!
nextel Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 of course I am not familiar with the past information....A relationship is about compromise. She does want to go back to the way things used to be, then why not discuss what those things are? Then after that you can make the decision to either give it a try or not. Not contacting someone for the basis of trying to prove a point, is really an immature approach.
Author whereismylifegoing Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 thanks she is coming over tonight so we can talk about it. hopefully all goes well wish me luck
RescueDiver Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 The first thing to remember is that it's not going to be the same as it was before. And the two of you have to realize that. If you don't you'll be doomed to failure because she's going to get weirded out by it. Good Luck
Author whereismylifegoing Posted November 28, 2005 Author Posted November 28, 2005 things were great tonight we talked but we are going to go slow. we both had stuff that we have to work on and now we can try to blend some of the good old stuff in with the new stuff. i think we can make this work but i'm still scared about the situation and so is she. we both had our hook ups with other people and she admitted that she didn't want anything to do with anybody else just wanted some fun in her life. and i needed some time to clear my head. i hope we can work this out.
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