Paddy9 Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Hi there My name is Paddy and I am 21 from Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire. I found out that my girlfriend cheated on me with a 16-year-old lad who works at the same shop as her and she said to me: I'll never cheat on you Now I feel so upset. How do I get over the hurt and pain she has caused me?? Paddy
slubberdegullion Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 You already know the answer to this. But if you need validation from an outside source... kick her to the curb. That's how to deal with it.
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 paddy i'm just across the irish sea from you! i agree with slubber... if you really love someone you couldn't ever do this so you deserve better get rid of her otherwise she might just do it again because she knows you'll still be there!
mini696 Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 At the very least break up and scare the s*** out of her. Dont let her know you will accept cheating, and if you take her back, dont emphasise the "as long as you dont cheat again" part.
Dano Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Break up with her!!!!!!!!!I know sometimes its hard but its really a "most do". Besides, it will tell you a lot more about her true feelings (which most likely she aready showed you by cheating)..........and don't worry, there are plenty more.
NYCmitch25 Posted December 1, 2005 Posted December 1, 2005 Hi there My name is Paddy and I am 21 from Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire. I found out that my girlfriend cheated on me with a 16-year-old lad who works at the same shop as her and she said to me: Now I feel so upset. How do I get over the hurt and pain she has caused me?? Paddy Hello, I'm not a close as the UK but I'm to the West a bit of you (New York). Anyway, I would weigh the relationship and probably end it -- How long together, saving the relationship worth it, How long with her? . Anyway, There are enough women in the world that you dont have to settle with a cheater (assuming you aren't a total jerk)
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